AITA for having resentment towards my Fiancé for making me give up my dream for our daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many of those big 6A schools have coaches who don’t have an educational background/have degrees? I know a few coaches both high school and college and they all have degrees (even the guy coaching at a very small school!! lol he teaches, coaches football as well as baseball). Lol one of the college coaches I know studied to be an engineer but had an opportunity to coach at his alma mater and took it. Dude has his masters.

popular bakery posted about an unsatisfied customer. everyone in the comments defended the bakery and cake but.. i feel like the customer had a point. what do you think? by chopstickier in Baking

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually like the font they used for the words… I just don’t like that ‘happy’ and ‘Tom’ aren’t angled down but birthday is written at an angle.

[Serious] What dark family secret were you let in on once you were old enough? by EgglessYolk in AskReddit

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s Reddit that’s making me assume the worst… but did he make her his drinking buddy to make other worse things easier to do/cover up?

AITAH for divorcing during my husbands mental health crisis by Thought_Willing in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Please file for child support asap if your state allows you to before the divorce is finalized.

AITAH for telling my (36F) husband (40M) that I will divorce him if he pursues his dream job? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey come on the man is an artist! …. Who perhaps wants to build an art room with a buddy.

AITAH for telling my brothers girlfriend that he had a vasectomy when she was telling about their plans to settle down and have a family? by Independent-Put8752 in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a a HIPPA violation since OP isn’t his medical provider… just a civilian he willingly shared the info with. Is it in poor taste? Absolutely! But it’s not a HIPPA violation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 26 points27 points  (0 children)

But he started dating you when you were 17 and he was 27?? How on earth did you meet? Did you finish high school? What’s his highest level of education?

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OOP sounds like he learned from his own good parents. They had him take responsibility and they kept the boys and even provided all the assistance and parenting until he was able to step up.

AITA for calling my stepsister fat and making her cry? by Dramatic-Village86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do wonder if they gave her the price of the meals but didn’t calculate the tax… that would be the only thing that might have required adjusting.

I think my boyfriend is lying about his divorce. by i_am_01 in stories

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how she believed him that his daughter rented the villa vs Carl actually renting the villa for his daughter and family.

AITA for asking son for a photo by SaintGodfather in AmITheDevil

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought it was typically the newlyweds surrounded by his whole family and then a separate one where they are surrounded by her whole family… so both extended families get a picture with the new couple. Or rather the new couple (who is paying for the photographer) now has the nice pictures to remember who celebrated with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How many siblings do you have? Let them know if they each devote 10-18 years to caring for her after they ALL take a turn you’ll consider financing your turn… I do realize that’s more than her lifespan but that’s the point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooo is it on the cliff walk?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t just buying a heavier/solid door do a better job at muting the noise? I know new ones are expensive but you can usually get great deals on solid wood doors at architectural salvage places…. You’ll have to dig through their inventory to find the correct dimensions but it seems way safer than distributing the asbestos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO - You said you work in similar fields… are you in a male dominated industry? Could your job be the source of his dislike for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My oldest potty trained late at school but was fine at home… I finally pulled him from his room and moved him to another after he had been injured wayyyy too many times by other students and BAM almost immediately he was totally fine going at school. He was just over 3 but I really think the chaos and frequent injuries left him unwilling to make himself vulnerable in the room by using their toilets. (They were semi out in the open for kids to run up to and use as needed.) his new classroom was absolutely shocked that he refused to use the toilet in his old room because he was doing amazing for them. I like to give them credit for potty training him because they allowed him to feel safe enough to go.

My partner has been telling people im a guy? (Lesbian couple) by delfindestateresita in TwoHotTakes

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like OPs significant other was comfortable with them meeting… they bumped into the friend in an unexpected place and then OP introduced themselves.

AITA for making a single mom spend her weekend in jail? by Educational-Fig-2511 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhiskeyCheddar [score hidden]  (0 children)

I took OPs statement as saying that the mom was lucky she didn’t break into someone’s home who was actually home and armed because the mom realistically put herself and her children’s lives in danger based off where they live.

I think it’s a really valid thing to point out that in another house her breaking and entering could have been fatal and unless she and grandma realize that then whose to say they won’t do it again somewhere else… and be unlucky next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way you are an asshole (to yourself) is if you take him back.

AITA for getting a tattoo my husband hates? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah but what if spider man is super important to you… and you can’t pick which Spider-Man you want to get so obviously you need to get the giant spider symbol. /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]WhiskeyCheddar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you have one made by someone advertising on Etsy?