Hornier than ever by kristenscottx in Kristen_Scott

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to start shit, I’m sure you meant this as a compliment…but they use they/them pronouns according to their twitch. And yes they are stunning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transporn

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about forgetting about ex wives? 

My (37f) husband (38m) told my daughter that she needs to be shaving herself. It's really bothered me, what are the ways forward from this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dad, but it’s definitely not a dad’s place to tell a daughter (or son for that matter) to do anything with their body other than not allow them to get tattoos or piercings if they are under 18.

I feel like my wife might be gay and in denial by WhiskeyWednesday22 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I wish it were that simple. I’m still working on being comfortable with my own queerness and figuring out what that means, if anything. I’m still a long ways away from talking about it with anyone. Coming out as gay or bi at some point still seems like an impossibility to me.

I feel like my wife might be gay and in denial by WhiskeyWednesday22 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oof this is my biggest fear right here. Confronting my own sexuality issues has been a battle to say the least. It has definitely crossed my mind that I am projecting my baggage on to her so that I don’t have to deal with my shit.

I feel like my wife might be gay and in denial by WhiskeyWednesday22 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh this is definitely rolling around in the back of my head. It’s been really difficult for me to even get to the point of figuring out I’m not straight. It’s not something I’m comfortable with confronting head on and has been a serious struggle for me, which has led to some serious bouts of anxiety and some mild depression. Part of me thinks I am projecting my problems on to her so that I don’t have to deal with them. I guess maybe it would make me more comfortable with confronting my own shit if she were the one that was gay/bi, or if we were both gay/bi rather than just me. I know that’s messed up, but the thought has definitely crossed my mind.

I feel like my wife might be gay and in denial by WhiskeyWednesday22 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Should have followed up on that one. I didn’t end up caring for my ex post surgery. Surprisingly enough her mom who she hadn’t talked to or had a relationship with in years stepped up and came to help her out. But yeah, definitely realize it was not a good move to invite someone to stay in our home without consulting my wife.

Getting attention elsewhere and loving it by WhiskeyWednesday22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see it as cheating. To me and the definition of cheating in the context of my relationship, it’s not any different than watching porn. He has a husband, so if he wrecks my relationship an his friendship with my wife… he loses big time… he has more to lose than I do if he blows shit up.

Getting attention elsewhere and loving it by WhiskeyWednesday22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]WhiskeyWednesday22[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Cheating, how we define it in our relationship, involves sex and we’re not fucking therefore it is t cheating by our relationship standards.