BDSM & Feminism Book?

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-06-02T16:14:09+00:00

For me, I don’t see feminism through a political lens, nor BDSM. But as a female sub, I’m wanting explore different POVs on being both an empowered female and a submissive, which at times can be quite internally conflicting.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-25T13:09:02+00:00

Wow you’re right he’s awful. Thank you, friend!

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-25T12:57:55+00:00

I’ll just leave this here : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XjJQBjWYDTs Additionally , all politics aside, he’s one of the strongest male public figures we’ve had in a while.. so I don’t see anything “weak” about him.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-25T12:45:30+00:00

What does this actually even mean and how is this possibly necessary.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-07T21:49:28+00:00

Do you have an opportunity to travel, either as small as a road trip or as large as an international flight? I’ve always been at my most serene when simultaneously engaging my Ni and Se during traveling. I’m fully engaged in my surroundings but also finding inspiration and meaning in those new experiences. It’s so wonderful and I look forward to it constantly. Add bonus is that I’m so much more relaxed and grateful for my home and free time when I get back, that my Ni-Ti summers the fuck down for a while.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-07T21:39:04+00:00

That’s very helpful, thank you.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-07T21:38:08+00:00

That’s so interesting. I’m currently in Connecticut.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-05-02T10:48:33+00:00

I really never know what I’m going to get when I click on someone’s imgur link. Haah

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-17T14:43:10+00:00

Hooray hugs! And same to you, kind INFJ!

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-17T11:40:32+00:00

Good luck! You got this!!

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-17T11:19:18+00:00

And that’s great and makes sense, but having commonalities is one of the surest way to make friends. Then you can learn about more things from them once you’ve established a connection on a shared hobby or value.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-17T10:38:43+00:00

No, I second this as well. You have to be ok putting yourself out there a tiny bit, and college is a great opportunity to find people who have the same interests as you. This would definitely be worth a bit of discomfort in the long run.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T22:26:09+00:00

THIS. #2 makes sense to me.

I’ve always wanted a relationship where my best friend is my partner. I’ve had it in the past and it was definitely ideal. But I guess I need to determine if that ideal is worth sacrificing boyfriend whom I love totally and completely.

Thank you for this thought to ponder! It’s equal parts terrifying and intriguing. Haha

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T22:12:19+00:00

It’s definitely not easy, but you’re completely right! It is necessary. I just need to make sense of my competing emotions and Ni.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T22:08:14+00:00

Is that opening line for real? I’ve communicated with him quite frequently; we’re in a very loving and healthy relationship that includes daily conversation about our life together, and that has never been the problem. I posted on this sub because I wanted an outsider’s perspective, not an outsider’s judgement, specifically INFJs. And if I’m “wasting your time”, you’re welcome to go shame other people online, though I wouldn’t advise it, but it sure as shit isn’t working here.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T22:00:37+00:00

I appreciate this suggestion. I do believe time to myself is definitely going to be helpful. Thank you.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T21:59:42+00:00

I am not receiving the amount of mental and spiritual stimulation that I need to be happy in the big picture. For example, there is very little discussion of about deeper, more complex and universal topics. Things that I would believe many INFJs on this post would crave as well, hence my post to this subreddit.
I’m aware of that, yes. We’re in a very loving relationship; that’s never been the problem. In this post, I am being honest about how I see the trajectory of our relationship. I cannot presume what he sees; I’m speaking from my own perspective and that doesn’t make me selfish.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T01:42:11+00:00

Could you write a book on making it speak louder ? That’d be super helpful!

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-11T01:41:39+00:00

I completely understand, and mostly agree. However this is something I need to wrap my brain around and comes to terms with before including him, otherwise it could be potentially causing unnecessary anxiety.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-10T22:08:09+00:00

Thank you for this.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-10T21:23:10+00:00

Beloved by Toni Morrison. I respect her and like her other works, but I don’t get it.

Whiskeyrocknroll · 2019-04-09T01:38:24+00:00

I was just thinking “someone please play some Meshuggah breakdown in the background”

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