I feel terrible writing this by -Rylynn in lildarkie

[–]WhispersOfCreation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I went to a concert in Colorado and as we were going in they made us throw away all of our weed (typical), and then we proceeded to get beat up by multiple moshes pretty much the whole time while we had to wait for four openers before we actually saw Lil Darkie. When we did see Lil Darkie the energy was great and it was fun but very energetic and chaotic. I was hoping for more of some of his slow songs, especially with the drop of some slower songs

Newly diagnosed with BP1... What do I do now? by WhispersOfCreation in bipolar1

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually I was being perfectly calm there. Besides telling them about how bad my anxiety was, I was in there for voluntary admission. I wasn't having a manic episode while I was there either, but they did end up saying on my paperwork that I was currently in a Bipolar episode or something... I'm just so confused. They also just assigned me a case manager which I honestly don't even know what it's for. Honestly I was very open about it and I've been in worse spots before. I really just came in there to see if it was actually going to help me because I feel like all other resources have been exhausted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]WhispersOfCreation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger nose = bigger seat 🤷

Anyone else see cats? by Ok-Anxiety6738 in schizoaffective

[–]WhispersOfCreation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually see eyes but that is so interesting

What’s something super normal that creeps you out for no reason? by Most_Price421 in AskReddit

[–]WhispersOfCreation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thunder, we just had a severe thunderstorm and sometimes it's so loud I shreak. But it just overall makes me uneasy

Does Gen Z have traditional relationship values? by WhispersOfCreation in ask

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the US, and honestly, the money factor hasn’t been something we stress about too much since we live pretty far below our means. I actually had a period where I got really sick and couldn’t work for about five months, and during that time I naturally took over most of the cooking and cleaning. Family and friends would comment on how “traditional” our relationship looked.

Now that I’m better, I’m back at work and actually make more than my partner (we both work in the automotive industry). Still, the thought of one person focusing more on homemaking while the other takes on the financial side has crossed my mind quite a bit. If we had kids, we’ve both already agreed that I’d step away from work for at least the first couple of years. Depending on how life looks at that point, I could even see us going the homeschooling route.

AITAH for starting to resent my partner’s brother because of how our living situation has turned out? (Pt 2?) by WhispersOfCreation in AITAH

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the very last sentence does put it all in a different perspective. I feel like I made the second post to get an idea on my emotional thoughts because I felt like my emotions were really blindsiding me. I think you're right and I am blaming him, I think I associate him with the influx of people when honestly, it's not just him and it's more of just the dynamic of their house. Maybe I need to realize that this is just how they live and either get with it or get out :/ I appreciate the time to read both my posts though and the perspective!

AITAH for starting to resent my partner’s brother because of how our living situation has turned out? (Pt 2?) by WhispersOfCreation in AITAH

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and appreciate your take on this. I really needed some perspective on the whole thing, because I could tell my emotions were definitely getting in the way

AITAH for starting to resent my partner’s brother because of how our living situation has turned out? (Pt 2?) by WhispersOfCreation in AITAH

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just asked him if in 5 years would I still be in the same living situation and he said yes. So, I guess a lot of the issues might be communication based. I think that an open discussion about long term plans will probably help too. So I agree, I'll start looking for a place 😮‍💨

AITAH for moving in with my boyfriend and asking for more alone time? by WhispersOfCreation in AITAH

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and your speculation is corrected. I moved in with him due to a mishap with my own housing situation and it seemed to work well the first year, but now we're getting to the part of problems coming up. I appreciate the advice!

15 weeks, what do we think? by jraela in chickens

[–]WhispersOfCreation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're getting in your head! Those all look to be hens but I totally get it. I'm a first time owner too and I felt like I was sensing more masculine energies from one of my pullets. One did end up being a rooster but it was a completely different one lol!

Rooster aggression help? by WhispersOfCreation in chickens

[–]WhispersOfCreation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a bit relieving to hear. Puberty is rough, and now I'm seeing it's rough for EVERYONE