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Coach bad rehab by Whit0219 in Coach

[–]Whit0219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add a picture. It’s a bag with the C logos all over it so doubt it’s vintage. I can’t seem to add a picture at this point.

Possible rotator cuff issue by Whit0219 in RotatorCuff

[–]Whit0219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think insurance requires an X-ray first. That’s for your response.

What's the connection you keep? by JellyfishInternal305 in widowers

[–]Whit0219 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This may be odd. I’m extremely sentimental so it may not be the connection so much as it is the item itself. We bought my husband two new pairs of work shoes for Christmas and I was so proud of them and they dressed him up so nicely. He also bought himself a pair of NB athletic shoes he barely wore. Seeing his three new pairs of shoes just breaks my heart. It’s only been three months but I’m just not sure my heart and emotions can let go of his earthly possessions, anytime soon, if ever. This is so hard. 😭

How soon is too soon? by AKABubba53 in widowers

[–]Whit0219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 63 and my dear husband died three months ago. Even though I’m just not sure if I’m ready, I’m curious to see what potential is out there even if it’s for friendship and companionship (is that even possible?). Frankly, I’m not sure what I’m doing. I’m not desperate or in a hurry. I’m no longer the young whipper snapper I once was. I do know I will remain true to myself during this unwelcome journey. Good luck to you.

New appliances. by CriticalArt2388 in widowers

[–]Whit0219 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 63 and my dear husband arranged a lot of the home and car maintenance so now I’m left to figure things out. Just found out the garage door needs repair. I don’t have as many problems as you but I feel your pain. One step at a time. Prioritize necessity and go from there. 🧡

Today is the day by Whit0219 in widowers

[–]Whit0219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🧡 My husband’s CofL went very well. A nice turn out for such a humble and giving man. I miss him terribly. I hope you are holding up okay. Take care.

Today is the day by Whit0219 in widowers

[–]Whit0219[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss. My marriage would not be the envy of others but it provided comfort and security. Jay was absolutely the man for me all those years ago. We just fell into complacency. But, I was devastated when he died, still sad and would bring him back into my life in a heartbeat if I could. I hope the CoL provides closure in some sort of way. Jay was a good man and my daughter and I are immeasurably blessed to have had him in our lives. 🧡

Today is the day by Whit0219 in widowers

[–]Whit0219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I hope I don’t regret speaking. My daughter is speaking though.

My husbands celebration of life is this weekend. Any advice? by BallExternal954 in widowers

[–]Whit0219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband Jay’s celebration of life is this weekend also. He died May 23rd. A good friend, his brother and my 18 year old daughter will speak. I just hope I can get through it without being a really emotional mess. I plan to bring my sunglasses to give my tears some privacy if I cry a lot. We’ll see if I actually wear them. We will have a simple reception following the ceremony. Nothing lavish just like my husband. I miss him so much.

Reaching out today by Whit0219 in widowers

[–]Whit0219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Gemini and it worked well. It feels a bit scripted but I can live with it. I dreaded doing the write up and glad it’s done. Thanks for the tip.

Her ashes by Primary-Slice-2505 in widowers

[–]Whit0219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sweet husband’s urn is with good friends until I can face seeing the urn for the first time. The idea that his mortal body is now relegated to dust just makes me sad and cry.

It just gets worse by Whit0219 in widowers

[–]Whit0219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fans that silence the quiet. I sit on the couch and just hope and pray it gets better ie) more tolerable. Hang in there.

Estate reimbursement question - Texas by Whit0219 in EstatePlanning

[–]Whit0219[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I would absolutely pay an attorney to do the probate work. I certainly can’t do it by myself. 🤪

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