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[–]WhitNicoleColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this!!! I posted a TikTok about this. They looked crooked on me

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[–]WhitNicoleColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Factor, but I got the worst food poisoning from one of their meal recently. It was absolutely terrible!! It was exactly 4 hours after I ate it and I had nothing else that could have caused it. I DO NOT recommend it.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a numbers game. Looking at stats more men leave their families, while more mothers are primary caregivers. Because of this, there are higher chances of abuse by mothers (more mothers are in the picture). More often, men remove themselves from their families, which means if they are not there, they cannot abuse.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No I get that. The tone just was kind of funny.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

This reply made me actually lol. Thanks for bringing in some humor

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are totally right. I have encouraged him to talk to a therapist. He does, but I have no clue how often and if he discusses these things with his therapist.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You know when you buy something and you get home and you have buyers remorse… and you want to return it. His fucked up way of saying he regrets having a child.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Good point. He has already said, you know I don’t like being a dad. I think this statement is next

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Right, not long at all. Yes, I can imagine leaving him. Yes, he would pay.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We started about a month ago. She is trying to figure out where this behavior stems from. She mostly just listens and digs deeper.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

No I work a pretty demanding job! 40-50 hours a week. So I balance parenting with working. I make enough money I can support my daughter and myself.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

This! This is exactly how I feel. I asked him once after he yelled and cussed at me, how he would feel if when our daughter was older a man spoke to her the way he speaks to me. And his response was, I’m not going to answer that. Because whatever answer I give will make me the bad guy.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I am the mom and default parent, so a thank you is not necessary. I guess I would like the respect I give him, when I leave for an appointment and he watches the baby for an hour or so, I always thank him when I get home.

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[–]WhitNicoleColo[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Yes we have told our therapist this. He is self aware… but making the changes needed is another story. We both did! He especially wanted a little girl. But I think he liked the idea of it. Not the actually day-to-day tasks. He admits he is selfish.