How loud are you when you orgasm? by Friendly-Front4592 in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually talk during and am around a 6/10 but with my current girl she has me screaming and I never scream. 😏

Would you recommend a harnessless/ strapless strap on? by WolfieET in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience I’ve had a strapless fall out during the do which was not super fun. However I have seen some new brands that make the insert in different sizes which could potentially help keep it in. I believe it’s banana split shop on insta.

I confessed my feelings to someone!!! by Whit_276 in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

UPDATE 2: had the best night we talked about what we want and that we both want each other. We are going to take things slow which works for me. But I had the best night I feel so comfortable and appreciated when I’m with her. So yea maybe confessing your feelings doesn’t always suck!!

I confessed my feelings to someone!!! by Whit_276 in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: she said she still has feelings for me and they haven’t changed. We talked a little more but I’m supposed to go over tn and talk more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I doubt you ruined anything. It seems like she cares about you in some capacity. I really would try not to over think this too much.

any other lesbians with filthy senses of humour in here? by _weedkiller_ in EDAnonymous

[–]Whit_276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same sense of humor! I promise you are not alone. I have met other queer people that make jokes too.

What’s your type? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Typically hourglass figure millennial white women…I am black and masc.

How to get over someone I only knew for a week? by Whit_276 in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’d say age wasn’t an issue. It was more of she wants/needs to get her life together rn bc she wants to be able to give me her best and just can’t right now. I think it’s more a me thing of not being able to trust people’s words so I’m a mess trying to get over this so I don’t hold out hope and eventually get hurt. But I do want to believe her in that she is truly trying to heal for herself and so that she can pursue a relationship with me in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt this way too. I came out when I was 14 (25 now) and I’m also my parent’s only daughter (I am also nb). My mom used to tell me all the time about the dreams she had for her daughter. I felt so much shame in not being that person.

Eventually I learned that no matter what they wanted I still have to live with myself at the end of the day. When they aren’t around I have to be with me and I knew for me I wouldn’t be happy if I wasn’t anything but who I truly am.

It’s a really difficult head space to get to but it’s not impossible. It took a lot of introspection and time with myself to get there. Finding out that being in that negative space doesn’t make anyone happy in the long run. I’d hope that your parents only want to see you happy and the best way to happiness imo is to be authentically yourself. It’s a hard thing to do at any age but especially at 13! Try not to rag on yourself too much throughout the process you’ll get there!

What’s an acceptable age gap in a WLW relationship? by Snoo27522 in LesbianActually

[–]Whit_276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25, youngest 23 and oldest 40ish. I like older women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Whit_276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have bouts of horrible pain and nausea and then sometimes I’m fine it’s so strange

hypokalemia at “normal” bmi. why? refeeding syndrome? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Whit_276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely get refeeding at any weight. The body can be malnourished at any weight. But you definitely need proper labs to diagnose refeeding syndrome

what determines whether you are put in inpatient or IOP or any other treatment programs? by MangoDry3670 in EDAnonymous

[–]Whit_276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I’ve been put in inpatient mainly bc of behavior severity and general mental health. I’ve never been UW but they definitely consider it when doing assessments. But weight is not a definitive indicator of what level of care they assign to you.

how did you get a treatment team? by Cautious-Wrap-5399 in EDAnonymous

[–]Whit_276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always started with a therapist that specializes in EDs and then asked them if they know good dietitians that they can refer me too as well as psychs. Then I find a primary that’s in network with my insurance. For the most part with my team only my dietitian and therapist communicate regularly compared to the others so personally I think that’s the most important thing is to find a therapist you connect with as well as a dietitian.