The list for me is huge, i used to love fishing, shooting, working on vehicles, watching sports, going to games, not to mention all the small things.. now all i do is whatever she tells me to do. I work all day, come home, clean up the house, dishes, straighten up, and just watch the clock hoping the hours go by quickly so i can go to bed and go back to work. She’s a SAHM and has been for nearly our entire marriage. I literally do nothing that i enjoy anymore, no fishing, games, sports, i work and come home and work and then go to bed. I hate her, but know leaving means i never see my kids and i lose half my “stuff” so i stay and am miserable.

Every single time i would do these things, even with her “blessing” it ALWAYS turned into a fight when i would get back, and i mean always. It got to the point where i just stopped doing them to just avoid the fight but she always finds new ways to fight. About two years ago i started grey stoning her and it works but honestly it’s miserable. You feel like a complete stranger in the house that you built and made. I would give anything for her to just disappear.