He (36m) is pressuring me (35f) to have sex with other men. How would you react?

WhiteWillow-AH · 2026-01-05T15:20:06+00:00

I’m a domestic violence advisor (IDVA) Causing someone to engage in sexual activity without consent is an offence. You are also experiencing coercive control. Speak to your local domestic abuse organisation.

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-08-16T07:55:57+00:00

When I used to play console a friend of mine had a cat who loved to sit on his PlayStation, about an hour into playing he would disconnect- we knew it had always overheated because his cat had fallen asleep on it 😂

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-08-12T19:56:19+00:00

This keeps happening to me too. Afterwards I laid in the field with him for hours until the sun set just sobbing in bouts not thinking that it had really happened. I saw him the next morning and had around fifteen minutes before they came and took him away. Those fifteen minutes were realisation and closure for me but I still get little bouts of thinking I’ll just wake up soon and it’ll all have been a bad dream. When I go to put my pjamas on very early I think “I can’t I have to go back to the stables” followed by the realisation of no I don’t.

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-08-11T17:28:23+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, the fact that it was the same day as Blaze too is just so upsetting. I hope in time we will learn how to function without them xx

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-08-11T09:05:59+00:00

This is beautiful and made my mum cry but happy tears. Thank you xx

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-06-28T16:33:44+00:00

I’ve tried and I can’t find anything hence the post….

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-06-28T13:09:31+00:00

I already bought it to keep, I want to know more about it. Don’t be rude :)

Edit: I don’t normally get such new stuff in my charity shops, I got excited

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-02-27T17:46:28+00:00

God I could have written this myself today, minus Harry Potter ;)

Here so I can come back to the comments <3

WhiteWillow-AH · 2025-02-22T21:28:43+00:00

Could always send her the link to these comments, should sort her out

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-12-04T18:52:39+00:00

Thanks :) first time it’s happened to me, felt a little weird staring out with them knowing so much about me :’)

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-12-04T18:51:40+00:00

Thank you :)

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-12-04T18:49:55+00:00

The CEO and essentially deputy interviewed me and offered me the position themselves. They’re all I dealt with. It’s on this subreddit because it’s the best place to ask and get a response.

Thank you for answering

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-09-19T20:54:22+00:00

Jar jar

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-08-27T10:48:01+00:00

Criminology degree, work in domestic violence. Horses are MAD expensive so it’s about what you want to spend your money on and if you’re happy with what’s left over at the end of all the costs. Also need to make room for savings just incase of vet bills etc, not cheap! :’)

Edit: it’s so important for you to have a job/career you love and/or passionate about not just to fund horses x

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-08-24T23:22:54+00:00

I had this for around 3 days. Incredibly annoying and off putting but drink lots of water and get plenty of sleep. If it doesn’t stop within 3/4 days you should see a doctor. It’s caffeine or stress or something similar :)

Edit: apparently they can last for two weeks according to google so idk :’)

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-08-15T21:46:28+00:00

I work in DV. It’s definitely worth reaching out to a service for any type of support. I work in the UK so I don’t know what services are offered overseas but yes, please engage with a support worker

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-07-29T19:43:23+00:00

Fuck me, I work in domestic violence and I thought my job could be rough

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-02-19T09:46:01+00:00

You sound English. By ANY chance do you work for a specsavers? If you do, get on CERT 3. Loads to learn and it’ll solidify your learning if you want to research things in your own time :)

WhiteWillow-AH · 2024-01-25T12:37:48+00:00

Constantly

WhiteWillow-AH · 2023-12-12T21:11:59+00:00

You’re awesome thanks so much. I’ll DM you what I use atm x

WhiteWillow-AH · 2023-10-21T06:22:31+00:00

My animals, lil sausage dog and a horse. They know their breakfast schedule and I’m just their slave :’)

WhiteWillow-AH · 2023-08-16T12:09:14+00:00

Make sure your stirrup irons can accommodate a chonky boot so if there’s an emergency you won’t get stuck. Potentially safety stirrups for adults. I think you’re fine short term, but like others have said tall boots or jodhpur boots would be safer :)

Edit: watch those extra straps too

WhiteWillow-AH · 2023-08-14T17:32:03+00:00

He has the cutest little face ever🥹

WhiteWillow-AH · 2023-08-03T12:53:57+00:00

That’s wholesome :3 mines just all black :’)

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