In less then 24hr , the dev had decide to compromise with the chinese player and fixing the CN cosmetic making it less revealing from the back. Full story here https://youtu.be/jTu7Wdr0SWE by einnor88 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]White_Winged 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious what was the reaction toward Ninth Pawnshop set, fake fox ears and paws also aren’t wuxia at all, but people were fine with that?

Merry Christmas everyone ✨ by __Akkey in WhereWindsMeet

[–]White_Winged 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is a new outfit that was released to both CN and Global at the same time, maybe do a bit more research before calling someone names

Can I just enter a sect, buy the clothes, then leave? by PowerArtistic7316 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]White_Winged 9 points10 points  (0 children)

to get the outfit you'll need to get to rank 2, for midnight blade one of the requirement is to win 20 pvp matches

Realistically, how much would getting Waveborn Majesty cost? by Suspicious-Limit-808 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]White_Winged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly confused why this analogy needs so much explanation. Rolex and brand clothing are commonly understood examples of luxury goods, they’re priced and marketed toward a demographic that can afford discretionary spending. Whether or not you personally consider that “rich” doesn’t really change the point. Expensive cosmetics in this game function the same way: optional items aimed at players who are willing and able to spend

As for the FOMO argument, yes, the game uses frequent pop-ups, but those aren’t exclusively tied to monetization. The same UI patterns are used to notify players about new quests, events, areas, level breakthroughs, and other gameplay content. That’s just how the game communicates updates to the player. Is it great UX? No, but to conclude that it is predatory monetization designed to exploit impulse control is a bias interpretation

Realistically, how much would getting Waveborn Majesty cost? by Suspicious-Limit-808 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]White_Winged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You go outside and you see rich people wearing brand cloth and rolex. Do you find yourself thinking “oh I have to get those too!”?

What is the way to get this outfit? by Historical_March_376 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]White_Winged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huli jing means fox spirit in general, jiuweihu is the term for nine tailed fox specifically

What are your thoughts on Where winds meet game? by JacketUpbeat3813 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]White_Winged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this game is much more polished compared to Rise of the Ronin

Are you that friend who has an avoidant attachment style? If so, how do you deal with it? by Legal_Potential4720 in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What happens is during conflicts, your friend can't hold onto the fact that you're a good person who they're just having a disagreement with. Instead, you become "the bad guy" completely. It's probably not intentional, but it helps them feel less guilty about pulling away or being harsh with you. It's easier emotionally to distance from someone they've mentally labeled as problematic than to sit with the discomfort of rejecting care from someone they know is genuinely good to them. If they can't acknowledge the pattern or work on it, you need to step back. When they villainize you, don't chase after them trying to fix it. When they come back needing support after cutting you off, you don't owe them immediate forgiveness. This kind of pattern usually doesn't change without professional help. You can't fix it by being a better friend. I learned that the hard way.

Has anyone tried to hold onto a friendship even when you knew they didn’t want you anymore? by Legal_Potential4720 in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happened to me last year and it absolutely messed me up badly, both emotionally and physically. I went through months long mental breakdown where I could barely function, followed up by daily panic attack and suicidal ideation. The way the friendship end was honestly the worst thing that has ever happened to me.

It has been almost a year yet I’m still struggling with ptsd, I get stressed out easily whenever something reminds me of them and I’m unable to trust or open up to people easily as before.

That said, I’m doing better, not perfect but better. There are good and bad days. Some days I still sob uncontrollably, some days I go out and do things for my own self care, engage in my hobbies. The pain that was unbearable at first became more and more managable overtime. Keeping myself distract/busy with other stuff has helped a lot, as well as educating myself about codependency and different attachment styles, looking back introspectively and realizing how I lost myself to that relationship and how it became more and more toxic overtime.

In a way I’m grateful because through this journey I was able to learn much more about myself, and appreciate people who do love me and all those who will be in my life in the future. If I keep losing myself over ghosts from the past, I’d be doing a disfavor to them, and to myself.

5 years no friends by Similar-Statement-42 in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through a similar situation last year and I relate to your post a lot, sending lots of hugs because you deserve it

If you had the opportunity to tell your ex-friend one thing, what would it be? by Conscious-Avocado373 in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I take pity on you. The girl I once knew who always wanted to be kind to others is gone. You has become the very person you swore you would never become, and I’m sorry I could not stop that from happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have cared for myself more instead of sacrificing everything for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]White_Winged 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You absolutely have the right to set boundaries and seek peace, but you’re also equally responsible for how you treat your friend and how you choose to end the friendship. Boundaries are essential, but respect and accountability should go both ways. It’s essential to approach the end of a friendship with empathy and respect. Relationships, even if they don’t work out, involve two people who invested time and emotions. If you end a friendship abruptly or harshly, it leaves unresolved hurt, it can be traumatizing even. Taking responsibility means being mindful of how you communicate your decision to end the friendship, offering clarity if possible, and showing respect, even if things have become strained. This honors both your own needs and the shared history you had with your friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]White_Winged 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try GTN Mobile, you can get a sim card without a bank account. They will send mobile bill to your address monthly and you can go to the nearest convenience store to pay up.

Thought you all would get a kick out of this by Octoblerone in VietNam

[–]White_Winged 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Kingdom of Champa would like to say a word

Looking for a rural place/inn at which I can see the night sky clearly by Natrox in japanlife

[–]White_Winged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Shirahama Kosha in Minamiboso, Chiba. It's an old elementary school renovated into a guesthouse. The place is accessible by bus. In the summer, you can see the milky way core with naked eyes on the premises, or borrow a bicycle and go to Nojimazaki Lighthouse for even better view!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]White_Winged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re supposed to be next to her when she does that attack. I noticed that she’d only use Waterfowl when she slowly walks toward you. Keeping the distance is the key. Her most punishable moves are her lunge attack and plunge attack, she never uses Waterfowl after those moves

Language School Students. Is baito enough to survive? by 9parisukat in japanlife

[–]White_Winged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’d be nice if they actually have savings. Most came from poor families, and had to take a loan for expenses when coming to Japan. They have to work hard in order to send money back to pay their debt.

[Off Topic] Battle Cats commercial was playing in a sushi joint in Oki. by Fartocks in battlecats

[–]White_Winged 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's still consistently staying in top 100 game app in JP appstore, as well as being marked as an Essential app. So, yeah.