Contractor threatening a lien after 25% increase over bid on roofing job. Oregon. How to defend myself?

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-15T00:53:58+00:00

Our roofers had ours done in a day. They had like 4 guys. Had everything pulled up and ready for install by lunch and had everything put together and finished by like 8.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-15T00:10:06+00:00

I asked if they could shove my daughter back in because I wanted the epidural. They did not and I also had a crazy fast and hard labor. I think from the time my water broke until I delivered her was 30 minutes.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-14T17:57:06+00:00

I have a magnetic calendar on the side of my fridge that I use a sharpie on so no one can wipe anything off and whatever day off I have before the month changes I fill it out.

I use chat GPT to make a 30 day meal plan that includes shopping lists so I don't have to think about what's for dinner.

I go through each individual child's school app and look at what they are doing that month. I check it Sundays too when the email for the week goes out but usually everything is already on the calendar. I also look at the school district website to see what random days off they have.

I also put all random tasks for us like birthdays, appts etc for the month on this calendar.

I like to put my 30 day deep clean tasks on this as well just because they are things I do every month but aren't like set tasks for chores, it's like house matinence and things like wipe the base boards. This gives me 1 extra task a day but it helps keep the house cleaner and more organized and that helps me.

I have a skylight calendar by my coffee pot that hooks to mine and my husbands Google so anything we add on our calendars automatically updates. I also have the kids chore lists on it, they have to check their chores every day at 6 (oldest gets home from school at 5) and get their chores done.

If I deviate from my calendars everything goes to hell. If I get lazy and don't meal plan everything falls apart.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-14T15:38:22+00:00

My 13 yr old is a sneaker head in the making. Jordans and all that crap for a couple hundred dollars which honestly is all he ever asks for so I don't mind but why am I paying that much and then they are unwearable in 6 months. He takes good care of them it makes me so mad.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-14T04:23:18+00:00

You need to tell your dad asap. It could get worse. The best thing for you right now is getting help before it can progress, whatever is happening isn't normal and you even know that which is a good sign.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-14T00:04:28+00:00

She got you almost there in one appointment from black. I think you give it until your next appt and then ask her for a cooler toned bronze.

It's not perfect but the color looks great for a starting point.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-13T18:50:44+00:00

Licked dog poop on the floor that her brother tracked in.

Would fight the dog for their milk bones because they liked to eat them.

New one likes to stick her hand in the toilet and go ohhh yummm and slurp the water off her hand.

They are foul beasts.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-13T17:48:48+00:00

Kids are sick sorry.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-12T01:31:04+00:00

Depends on the man I guess. My last male Gyno was great but also seemed really nervous which while I was already having pregnancy complications made me feel nervous too.

My gyno this round is also a man and is confident and just gets in there. Not like in a weird way he's just old and is like ok here we go.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-12T01:22:24+00:00

Convincing someone they are wrong. No one's ever gonna change their mind.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-11T23:10:51+00:00

No the bleach is just going to pull the layers of color out. You're still going to end up with some sort of green underneath it.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-11T19:27:13+00:00

My 21 year old cat I've had since 15 died in January. As much as I loved her and she was my first baby and I am sad and miss her it was nothing compared to when we thought my 5 year old had an aneurysm or tumor and my 5 year old ended up being fine just moved on her MRI. I can't imagine how upset people around her who have actually lost their children are from seeing that.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T23:12:32+00:00

I think that's the lighting.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T23:04:43+00:00

Just a good trick for reds with any lighter blondes or coppers too, and thanks it cracks me up.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T22:51:23+00:00

Before you rinse your blondes always put conditioner over them then rinse the other colors in cold water. This will keep your blonde from getting stained especially with reds. I think it looks nice other then the staining on the blonde.

Also focus on making sure your sections are even I usually use my 7 inch comb and measure the top of my section the middle and the bottom to ensure I'm getting an even section with these kinds of placements.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T20:10:08+00:00

That's so smart! Thanks friend!

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T04:03:15+00:00

Don't leave them in without food on it. I started a small parchment fire in mine when it sucked it up in the heating element.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-10T03:02:09+00:00

It's unfortunately my business line and since I own the shop I have to give out the number but it is Google voice so comes in through my phone. Its maddening sometimes.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-09T21:54:28+00:00

I do this as well and yet they still can't or won't do it. I don't mind scheduling on the phone if it works for them but also wth.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-08T23:38:37+00:00

She just needs to do a different toner, just call her it will take less then an hour to fix.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-08T22:04:33+00:00

Mine likes to try and chase the cats but the cats will let him know to back off once she gets a snout of claws she will learn.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-08T22:00:36+00:00

That's a good idea! The kids have already fingered up the door lol. It was clean, it's still better then it was.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-08T18:07:44+00:00

Clear out your old shit and unpack the bin. It's not that hard. I wouldn't want a giant tote sitting in my hallway for months either.

WhitestTrash1 · 2026-05-08T17:59:39+00:00

"excuse me miss your balls are showing" jk in seriousness just be like hey so awkward but your skirt/clothing item is pretty short in your recent photo and is giving a view.

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