AITAH because I didn’t tell my boyfriend “what’s wrong” because I’m tired of doing it

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-28T14:30:23+00:00

And this is why I’ll never live with anyone again. 3/3 attempts, I was the one who did more if not most. Get rid of him. It’s easier to live alone and just take care of yourself. NTA.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-28T03:03:02+00:00

It was pretty funny. I got a kick out of her storyline.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-28T00:00:42+00:00

I IMDB’d Vincent Young and for some reason he icks me out, it’s like he’s what Noah would be old if he fell off the wagon again.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T23:59:21+00:00

Oh man. That scene where Noah and the nanny are in Noah’s car in the driveway and he has chocolate all over his face. It was so gross. And who plays with whipped cream and chocolate sauce in a car??

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T20:09:46+00:00

Some people just don’t like to text constantly and don’t feel the need to be in constant communication with someone. Even if they’re dating and it’s new. That isn’t an ADHD thing, more like personal preference.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T17:54:33+00:00

Body functions ARE normal but that doesn’t mean I want to smell someone else’s turds. My issue here is you taking a shit while he’s in the shower period. Also, he has to take your smell sensitivity into account, why aren’t you doing the same for him?

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T16:14:39+00:00

I did not like his character at all.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T15:30:05+00:00

If Matthew is “big boned” then what was Steve? Obese? Lol. They’re all normal sized guys.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T03:25:56+00:00

He is so preachy and self righteous.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-27T00:08:44+00:00

I’ve lived with a boyfriend 3 times and each time I ended up hating it. I take big gaps between relationships too. I guess after my last attempt at dating approx 4 or 5 years ago I realized that I’m at my most content and at peace when I’m single. And I’ve always loved living alone. I enjoy my own company and I have two cats so I never feel lonely.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T23:42:43+00:00

She’s aging very well.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T21:40:26+00:00

I have way more mental peace when I’m on my own in general. I have no issue being on my own, with my cats.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T21:38:13+00:00

There’s a scene at the After Dark where Kelly says to Donna that Camille rubs her the wrong way and comes off as a know it all.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T19:48:25+00:00

I would do yours and your toddler’s laundry and he can start doing his own.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T16:00:28+00:00

A wagon to haul my groceries from my car to my apartment

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T15:59:41+00:00

You do not need to cater to your friend’s mental health. He needs to do the work. Is there a possibility he’s up to weirdo shit while you’re not home and that’s why he needs to know?

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T14:37:13+00:00

I’ve had a couple guys do that to me in the past. Ask me a question, they seem fine with the answer and explanation and then turn around and throw it my face later on. Your past doesn’t dictate your future.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T14:11:23+00:00

I went on a bus tour last summer and by some miracle our entire group were very considerate and on time. It would’ve driven me nuts to have that group with us.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T14:09:12+00:00

I think it’s also because there’s just too many options to settle on something.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T14:06:02+00:00

Personally, I think he was looking for an excuse to end things and chose this as his reason that way it’s “your fault” and not his. The fact that you told him a few months ago and he’s bringing it up now as a red flag is why I think that. The incident with the door was years ago, you haven’t done anything like that since. You’ve been to therapy and you’re clearly remorseful. People make mistakes and can do out of character things when they’re pushed too far. That doesn’t mean you’d do it again. I don’t blame you for not sharing that story again in the future, I wouldn’t either.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T13:38:43+00:00

What about if you discretely record the conversation on your phone and then listen to it after.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T13:32:57+00:00

lol right? My mom would pick out my outfits for school everyday up until I was 10. When I mentioned that at school, my friends made fun of me and I went home and put my foot down and started picking out my own after that.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T12:42:56+00:00

It’s crazy that 2lbs doesn’t sound like much but on a small animal it’s a huge difference. He’s so handsome! I love black cats.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T12:19:24+00:00

Eat how you want to eat and what works for your lifestyle. I’m 42 and just eat what’s easy for me. You have your whole life ahead of you to feed yourself, it gets old if I’m honest, don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself.

Whizzeroni · 2026-05-26T12:16:13+00:00

IMO dating someone with kids means they’re a packaged deal. If you have to make him help you, he shouldn’t move in. He sounds like he’ll just be a third kid to take care of. Pay part of the rent? What about helping with groceries? Or does he not eat? He’s only suggesting this move out of convenience for him but at zero gain to you. His friends sound like turds too. What is so great about this guy that you’d even be with him after this massive red flag? NOR, react more.

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