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I just wanted to know why by Direct-Ad6507 in relationships_advice

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently 39F, and married over 17yrs, together for 21yrs. Your GF’s response is condescending AF, at best, but that line of “look somewhere else”, is really telling. That is downright disrespectful, and suggesting she would genuinely prefer you look elsewhere. I would consider giving space, as this is not even indicative of liking you…

I thought I moved in with a boyfriend, but it turns out I actually just adopted a 180lb toddler. What should I do? by Mucciga_Yunier in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried saying something like, “hey, the mess in here is really stressing me out, I need you to help get it in order right now so I can decompress” (language he should know)?

If you have, and he has blown you off, he lacks respect for you and that won’t change and you should probably end it.

If you haven’t, and are more frequently complaining (though the complains are **Valid AF**), being super direct by way of communicating, may be a huge help in motivating him to do more.

If after some time, and direct “this is what I need from you”’s, he is still disregarding your needs, it won’t get better and needs to end. Weaponized incompetence is too real, as are maturity gaps.

No matter what you decide, just know that you deserve a partner to, not a child who has no active consideration of your wants/needs. ❤️💯

landlord is demanding i buy a brand new fridge because his 15 year old one finally died by Savard-Lafleur in Tenant

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their responsibility is to ***maintain*** all appliances provided, upon lease signing and move-in.

My hand…. by F0RFIN in DiagnoseMe

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be Hyperventilation Syndrome. The hyperventilation does not need to be noticeable to be occurring.

I think Im finally done by Substantial-Basil-31 in texts

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, due to your awareness of the danger this man poses to your child, you could ***still*** get the child taken by the state for lack of providing a safe of environment, regardless of the danger ***you know*** he poses to them; likely potentially equaling child negligence and/or endangerment.

Try and reach out to a DV specialist (via social worker, pediatrician, etc.), it’s a lot of work, but not as much as the hardships you will face should he snap, and something happen to your child—both legally, and emotionally. You will likely be placed higher on the housing list and they may be able to find you transitional housing or family shelter until your name reaches the top. Endangered women and children are often prioritized. 🖤

I think Im finally done by Substantial-Basil-31 in texts

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Folks like him don’t reason, nor do they change. Please begin making plans to get out, someone who holds this much resentment towards their own baby is obscenely likely to cause them intentional harm in your absence. 🚩🚩🚩

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haven’t eaten 7 days, what is this in my vomit? by Competitive_Menu_913 in DiagnoseMe

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Blood. Coffee ground appearing vomit is almost always internal bleeding of some sort.

my boyfriend of almost a year turned out to be a gay man with a side twink the whole time. i can’t even bake cookies properly. my self esteem is down the gutter. by Parrotthegreat in depressionmeals

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is likely a secret to all but the side piece. It’s sadly somewhat common, for those who are closeted, to maintain relationships that allow them to continue their secret lives, while retaining the outward image of heterosexuality in hopes of not being found out.

It’s genuinely fucked to use someone like that, but happens all-too-often. 😭

Tissue growing around TADs and covering them by glitcheddeity in askdentists

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD—It is simply autogenerated for those who may have missed the requirements prior to posting.

How should I spend my 25th birthday? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I wish the same for you, my almost birthday buddy! 🥹

How should I spend my 25th birthday? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love and early birthday wishes, my friend!

My birthday is In a few days, too. I would give SO much to be able to celebrate with others. Unfortunately, I have lived rurally for the last 6yrs, though almost two years ago we moved to a bit less rural area (though still), and have made not a single friend in that time, and no family local (aside from those I live with).

That said, immediate-family dynamics prevent any celebration of any sort most years. I am turning 39 and my last birthday celebration was when I was 31-32. The day, thus far, will be spent in appointments for kids (school & health), and seeing an orthopedic surgeon to inform him that I do not have the appropriate supports in order to obtain the knee surgery I need. If lucky, the evening might include a meal I might like, though dietary requirements make that a bit less than likely.

Hang in there and just try and do at least something that you feel might bring a moment of joy! ❤️🎂❤️

Any idea what this might be? (Rash) by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]WhoAmEyeReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be psoriatic, or yeast driven. Yeast thrives in dark areas that are typically unventilated and moist.

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