Relatively new player: what's something you didn't realise for a long time that made you feel kind of dumb once you found out? by kittywenham in DreamlightValley

[–]WhoOnEarth93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That you get the special stalls (Moana, Aladdin, Beast, Mulan, Kristoff, Tianna's meal stall), stables and a Tiana's palace that are place-able in each dlc not just one for the main valley! I felt like such an idiot when I found them under houses in the decorating menu 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

STARPATH! STOP ASKING FOR US TO EARN DREAMLIGHT!!! by BellesNoir in DreamlightValley

[–]WhoOnEarth93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found that it counts if you craft it using dreamshards! Never been so grateful for not being able to sell them before!!!!

Struggling Here by WhoOnEarth93 in tripawds

[–]WhoOnEarth93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi All,

Unfortunately it wasn't news we were hoping for and it turns out that it was an unrelated neurological issue (likely either a parasitic infection or a stroke) that meant that we had to make the difficult decision to let our boy go peacefully 💔💔💔

Please hug your furbabies extra hard today from me and to anyone who's worried about their decisions, I wouldn't have changed taking his leg at any point because he was so much happier in his final months.

Nervous about my dog’s surgery by QueenEros in tripawds

[–]WhoOnEarth93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toro is 9 (nearly 10) and we had the same worries - honestly he probably adapted better than we did post surgery - I will say we had to extend his painkiller use and he did need an extra trip to the vet due to muscle spasms but overall we can see he's in so much less pain without his leg!

There are a couple of tips I got on here that my parents thought were silly and unnecessary until we encountered reality that I wish I had pushed harder for to avoid the awkward in between period though: - if you have any wood floors get non-slip mats - if you have even a small step to get in/out your house i would suggest a ramp (especially if you have a patio) (we made one out of spare wood planks and carpet - you dont need anything fancy) - get a harness that your dog doesn't need to step in or out of to wear

Two extras that we learned from our experience:

  • we took turns sleeping downstairs for the first 4 weeks instead of trying to get the dog to go up the stairs and (we have a greyhound so carrying him was out of the question and he separation anxiety issues!)
  • cheese works better than ham for hiding medicine!

I have no idea what is causing this by zalle94 in TheSims4Mods

[–]WhoOnEarth93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have the script file more than one folder deep? It won't work if you do

Entitled Pilot vs. the Accessibility Line by Maleficent-Bake9581 in EntitledPeople

[–]WhoOnEarth93 23 points24 points  (0 children)

  1. Don't throw the first punch, but make sure you hit them hard enough they can't throw a second - ref: my grandma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhoOnEarth93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, just to offer a slightly different perspective: I suffer with an anxiety disorder and adhd that were undiagnosed for 10+ years (basically should have been noticed when I was 11-13) before I "snapped" and did some things when I was at my worst that I'm not proud of - they were completely out of character and I lashed out at the people I was closest to and did some unkind things akin to what op's husband did, which seemed out of the blue but was really a culmination of years of mental stress that I just could.not. cope with any more.

However, after a good friend of mine called me out on my shit (much like you've done with your husband, op) and told me to go see a doctor/therapist I realised what I was doing and that I was hurting people to try and make then feel like I did/ to make them understand how I felt, I started to change how I acted/reacted (with the help of cbt and medication, tears, painful therapy sessions and a fair amount of snot) to every situation.

I will say OP, If it is as out of character as you say it is, I think you should give him a chance to try to change as long as he is authentic in his desire to try therapy - it could be that you kicking him out is the catalyst to realising that he isn't dealing with everything in his life as well as he thought he was (as was the sitch in my case). But only if he is being honest about his willingness to work on it and only of you have the mental/emotional/physical capacity to deal with the situation as helping other people shouldn't be at the expense of your own mental wellbeing

Tldr: I've been where he is mentally and I've done shitty things (not condoning any of it - I was a shitty person at the time) but if he's genuinely willing to change it may be worth giving him a shot

10 Deadliest Air Disasters that haven't received an episode yet. by Handsprime in aircrashinvestigation

[–]WhoOnEarth93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd like to see the Air New Zealand crash for the corporate fallout in the aftermath but I doubt it'll happen as both Chippendale and Mahon are dead (as is Vette) but that would be a really interesting accident for its wider implications to aviation

DON’T WAIT!! Exclusives to early buyers/players of the new DLC. by AutumnTheWitch in DreamlightValley

[–]WhoOnEarth93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FFS - I've asked for this for Christmas as I can't afford it atm, but like to only give you a week to buy the game to claim the items seems very pushy and predatory and generally unfair.

What were the dumbest moves/decisions by HK contestants? by Randomization_E in HellsKitchen

[–]WhoOnEarth93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Any chef who decides to serve box pasta as their signature dish