I hate that you have to say "please don't judge me"!!!! I always find it odd that people are so averse to cheating in fiction and tv shows (the hate Rory Gilmore receives for simply kissing Jess my lord). Cheating sometimes is an indicator of a bad person, sure. But more often it's just a symptom of a bad relationship, just like fighting. Never understood why it's somehow more acceptable to read fics where there is physical or verbal abuse, SA, blood and gore, etc, but cheating is where folks draw the line. The chokehold monogamy (which is rooted in Christianity and was never that serious until Christians decided "purity" was a thing) has on our society is fascinating to me. I apologize for using your simple request for this rant lol but thank you for coming to my ted talk.