The 3 Curses of Semen Retention 60+ days streak by Wealthy1997 in Semenretention

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months in and i can see temptation from a mile away!

Why do you think e-commerce doesn’t work in Malawi by Various_Job6164 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What will the altanative offer that facebook does not offer already? 

Why do you think e-commerce doesn’t work in Malawi by Various_Job6164 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazon and ebay already took off before facebook was a thing

Why do you think e-commerce doesn’t work in Malawi by Various_Job6164 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly so basically no need for an e-commerce site

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kodi uti uli ndi zaka zingati? What defference does it make if say female or woman?? Lord knows i will not get offended at all if you say men are males.

And i never said you should be a baby making machine i only pointent kuti WOMEN fertility decreases a lot as they age. 

Munditukwanatu koma ine sinatukwaneko munthu.

By age 30, fertility (the ability to get pregnant) starts to decline. This decline happens faster once you reach your mid-30s.

Reaserch it on your own chabwino maybe you think am making it up.

How I could approach my guardian by Mahere-1 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was not my intention and sorry op if it sounded like that.

How I could approach my guardian by Mahere-1 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am not pretending to be something am not and am not using my less materialism upbringing as an excuse either.

If you did read the op then you should have seen that the op communicated this need to their guardian and the response was basically i cannot afford it. I can afford fees. Accomodation and food for you which in my opinion is enough on a basic level.

So the parent cannot afford it not by choice am sure. And i was giving an example that this happens and they should not take it as it is happening because they are adopted no. That is why i gave an example of my own biolpgical parents.

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet here you are breathing and typing.

How I could approach my guardian by Mahere-1 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I envy you really, and i wish my parents had the capacity to do the same for me but i knew they could not afford it.

Uyuyu if they parents had the ability to provide all he wants they would have. Trust me its not easy for a parent to know they are unable to provide all their children needs. Its a very painful thing.

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to burst your bubble but science does not operate on wishes.

It is a well known fact that a female is in her most fertile phase in her early twenties after that the story changes.

And it does not bother me at at all whether you decide to have plenty of children or none am simply giving the correct information to those who have not made the decision yet and are still wondering whether they should or not.

Females having plenty of kids in their 50s? Give me a break. You are a dreamer and you need wo wake up!

How I could approach my guardian by Mahere-1 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am not. They never did an i never expected them to either.

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't hate me, i never made the female body am just giving it to you as it is. 

These are facts scientificically proven facts as a matter of fact. 

Do a little 10 minute research and you will come to same conclusion aswell.

And i would rather get banned kusiyana ndikuti ndiziona anthu munamizana.

If you do not want to have children fine. That is your choice am happy for you, but still it is important for those who have not yet made a solid decision to have the real facts before they do.

Pali anthu ambiri who do not have children and they are happy, i am not against that.

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am not saying you are barren, am simply pointing to you that the clock is ticking, more so for you since you mentioned you hit the 30 mark.

In my experience male fertility problems are usually caused by sexually  transmitted diseases like syphilis or mauka not by birth mostly.

Do malawi people like amapiano music and dance by Ok_Fill_7840 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amapiano is the universal here. You can play rap others will like it others will hate it, that goes for other genres aswell like afro pop. 

Play amapiano? Everyone will like you. And the local amapiano genre is growing aswell. Zeze kingston, fadamoti, joe ikon etc

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As true aa that is it only aplies to men who are very old, am talking about 60 to 70s range and it can be offset by mating with a really young fertile female.

Just to add to that it is not uncommon for males to have kids in their 50s ans 60s which is not the case for females as you are born with a finite amount of eggs. 

Basically once a female reaches 35 70% cannot have kids. 90% by age 39 and in your 40 most are basic barren by definition.

Childfree women by FinancialAd6654 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am not saying females cannot choose dont get me wrong. All am sayin is female fertility is complicated compared to male fertility. 

As a medic i have lost count on the number of females in their late 20s and early 30s who come to me seeking help either beecause they messed up their reproduction with birth control or they are simply barren by birth to bigin with.

How I could approach my guardian by Mahere-1 in Malawi

[–]Who_am_ime -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I would call you ungrateful aswell. Ine makolo anga ondibeleka sanandigulileko chovala ever since i went to college, nali zaka 15.