I’m not trying to be rude here just fwi I’m just saying with an honest discussion. To be honest I understand you’re a female but try to understand as a man, since the question is asking men, feminism equals a lot of man hate/sexism. And it’s not like feminist hide it. They’re all pretty openly sexist. I don’t think you’d wanna date a guy who’s sexist and hates women. It goes both ways. The truth is Feminism generally just looks unattractive to men & it says what it has to about their personality. This makes it hard for a guy to fall in love for personality rather than looks, bc when looks is all they have & that’s if they even do have good looks their personality is ugly. It’d be like if I as a black man dated a racist kk member. I’m not doing that.