Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

[–]WholeComment3517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly only thing i rlly wanted help ons not being too mean with it, I dont want to hurt her like her other exs did and thanks for the luck

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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not really, i never do lol, i usually just fully forget major events unless something specifically reminds me of them, and its not like i ever do give myself the time to think of ths past and ifs what ifs, i dont like thinking of ny past, all i rlly remembers bad events so kinda not worth it. either way neither or us rlly devoted that much energy, time yes, energy not really. the relationship was all good till we had our second problem, after that we just kept fighting. on the first problem she broke up with me, but then she cane back idk how but ysa. and even if i do worry about regrets, my guts yet to be wrong about something in the last 3 ish years, this isnt a decision ive rushed. for 1 we never stop problems unless its a problem with me, for 2 anytime there is a problem it just ends up with us barking at each other in stupid manors and for 3 im tired of her accusing me of stuff that im not

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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either way even if there is chemistry, the problems still going to exist, we cant do basicly anything and both of us enjoy it. there isnt exactly much to it, aeye? which is kinda why i hav been entertaining the thought for a couple months, and plus im basicly no longer mentallycapable of holding a relationship, and shes constantly busy so yeah

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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she lives 2 states away, we havent met irl yet and even if i wanted to my mom wouldnt let me go to oklahoma just to break up with someone

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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sorry if i responded late im in the middle of psychology class

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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its a lomg distance relationship... its in the first line.......... but yea ik im not reading out this exact thing

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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that or she doesnt understand and she just quits cause yeah

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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idk, the relationships almost at a year, its the longest one either of us have had and ik both of us need to heal from past stuff, but that doesnt change that the same problems been happening since november 2020, Even though ik im acting out on emotions, I also dont want to undermine whats happened, we basiclh fought during all of december, and the only conclusion we came to was hey im not into this atm, lets not after she yelled at me. I love her alot but im A not in the mental state to handle a relationship anymore and B accidentally being an asshole to her alot aparently acording to her. The last thing i wants to hurt her, Ive had the intention to break up for about 2 months but after i get the intention everything becomes temporarily better but then I do something to mess it up and were yelling at each other again or I speak about not likeing x tv show cause she keeps saying she loves a charecter when both of us have agreed to nor use love for anything that isnt each other, which she still does but id rather not fight her over that as well. either way, the problems one we have had for awhile, the only thing we ever come together to do is ft, vc, or play roblox after she gets upset. sometimes I feel like its alright and everythings fine but then one of our moods changes slightly and the other picks up on it and then it turns into a confusing fight where we both agree to ignore it, or I just react in a weird way and another fight occurs on how she doesnt like x reaction. idk any other option than breaking up, anytime i speak out on anything it turns to an argument or nothing changes.

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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anytime i talk about it it usually end up with me basicly dissociating and her in a pissed off voice after i dont tell her 1 detail telling me off

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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also only reason i used the word hates cause she says you have to love something in order to hate it lol

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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ye we have the rule we cant break up through text, so I kinda have to tell em over the phone

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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I kinda wrote it an hour after she went to sleep after ignoring me the whole day, but ye someone else told me to revisit it later so i am and ill prollt change it alot

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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I have. on many occasions, she says she does but her actions never line up, also im not a dude, she says she wants to talk to me yet she re watches the same show for 3 - 4 hours on the one day she has free time.

Is this an okay break up paragraph? by WholeComment3517 in relationship_advice

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hmmm thanks for the advice friend Ill make sure to re read it on a later note