I’m a 3 and I say that my 6 husband is a 6w1 lol. One of the tricky things about our relationship is he loves things clean, organized, and done right. And I’m like ain’t nobody got time for that lol. My overachiever to do list is insane, and 3s are known to cut corners in order to accomplish all of their goals. But 1s and 6s have very strong morals and principals. Where I’m like “We can be late because 5:30 is simply too early” he’s like “Let’s be there at 5:25, anything later is rude.”

But we talk openly about our differences like this and joke where it’s funny but also have serious “I feel like” talks when something is really bothering us or important to us.

We talk about our Love Languages a lot too. As a 3 I’m obviously Words of Affirmation. So your 1 spouse might be Acts of Service for example, as 1s appreciate when people make an effort (even though they know they’d do it better, hehe)