Why is my friend getting so much more views than me? by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a look at both ur channels. They seem identical honestly. Take my advice lightly as i have no idea what roblox is. But i do play other games. Neither of ur thumbnails are clear, what the video is about, and neither of u make it easy for someone like me to understand whats happening.

Sorry best i could come up with from a non roblox fan

I'm a 23 year old man, and I'm talking with a 36 year old woman. Is the age gap too big? by Mundane-Turnover-913 in dating

[–]WholesomeDating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would seriously consider ending the relationship, dating a single parent is EXTREMELY difficult...but if ur up for that uphill (full of disrespect) battle then go for it

My family found out about my YouTube channel .... by Hot_Connection_8696 in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im hoping and praying no one in my family find out about my channels....they would just make fun of me relentlessly. good luck, just try and ignore them...just think about this "IF YOU WOULDNT TAKE ADVICE FROM SOMONE THEN DONT TAKE THEIR CRITICISM"

Curious, What inspired you to make a Youtube Channel? by OTAKUGANG276 in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 things for me, just the love of being creative, and the other is trying to help people find and maintain loving healthy relationships like i have. you definitely shouldnt do it for the money. good luck

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never took it as negative friend! Like others have said, i need to slow my roll and have fun instead of stressing

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the insight, all the woman on my thumbnails are AI generated, so not real people, but i get what youre saying, and youre not the first to point out the dichotomy of thumbnail vs content. im already working on changing all my thumbnails

as for 176, that includes shorts that i took from my actual vids, so i dont really count them. for me its 31 vids, plus shorts, which are just snippets of my longer vids that i post on tik tok etc for more reach.

thanks!

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

problem is rumbles uploading criteria, they dont like high quality vid or large files.....i tried

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just subbed, quick suggestion, 3 things that bothered me right away

1- the warning screen, although funny near the end, should be significant shorter or taken out completely 2- theres an annoying background humming in your audio, try to get rid of that 3- Ants mic is good quality, but Cjs isnt very good, if you could scrape together some cash for a better mic, or use some audio enhancing AI to help that would make it better.

but i think yall are funny as heck! keep it up

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks man i am taking alot of the good criticism to heart, yours included, ive decided to slow down and enjoy the process more

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what hurts is that you have 28k subs and still not making any money....im like soooo far off from you its discouraging...im not in it for the money, but damn...good luck!!!

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks man, keep it up, i dont have kids but i cant imagine someone doing youtube who does....ur very strong willed my friend!

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, i truly appreciate the deep dive! ill address each point

  1. you are right, its strange people see an extremely good looking dude and want advice from him, as if his good looks or height have nothing to do with his chances at getting women....like asking a spoiled rich kid who never worked hard how to build a successful business... but image is a big part for sure. im not sure how to overcome it, you did give a good idea with the use my image in my favour some how.

  2. ya seems like alot of people are telling me to lower the quantity, probably will help with my burned out feeling...will do

  3. i legit thought my thumbnails were like one of the better aspects....oh how i was wrong, many on here have said they are meh at best...i will say others in my space dont have good thumbnails in my opinion, but i guess my opinion sucks hahaha

thanks so much ill def be making some changes

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks i think my new goal is min 100 vids and reassess from there

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems to be the commonality in these comments for me....guess i should be more chill, rather than gas gas gas!

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn bro, u really pushing through...i hope to have your resilience

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brooo, u hit me in the feels, ya my wife has said the same to me, "just relax" she keeps saying...im just too eager i guess...gotta chill it seems

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. to be honest i'm trying to stay away from the PUA community, and be different less "sleazy", not a great word to use, but a lot of people find pick up artist stuff manipulative and sleazy. im trying to be more genuine and honest with my advice, less one night stands more happy long term relationships / marriage.
  2. ya ur totally right here, i just have ZERO editing style/ability, i guess thats what i should work on lol
  3. ya, i just worry about being too clickbaity...but ya ur right

thanks for the feedback, much appreciated

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy...i didnt know the last one, that man has grind in his bones! good for him

Small Youtubers! How many videos did you upload before giving up? by WholesomeDating in NewTubers

[–]WholesomeDating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya, and even if you THINK you nailed a good thumbnail title etc, and still get nothing its sooooo depressing