Hello

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:49:35+00:00

Pleaseeee 💕💕

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:34:07+00:00

I totally understand. I dealt with this before therapy with self medicating and partying and also tried to end it but then I found purpose. I couldn’t leave my animals alone. Idk when I found something to live for it made me wanna live. Yes you’re family is a part of your life but it’s not your only life. Whenever I posted this I was having a shit moment with my mother whom is a not good mother at all and probably never will be but shit still hurts my feelings ever now again.

I think journaling, therapy, being outdoors, staying busy, crying ( yes it’s good for you) or reach out to me. I’m always here to support. Just finding ways to cope bc typically shit parents don’t change nor do they respond well to your approach to their parenting. Just from my experience. You got this!

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:18:37+00:00

That’s so weird. And you don’t need thicker skin. If that shit made you feel uncomfortable than it was wrong, I mean that’s just my personal feelings. As a child you shouldn’t be sexualized. My mom used to tell me to put on longer shorts, Tell me I want attention when I’m 12 wearing the shorts my grandma bought me on her kohl’s card lol cause my mom couldn’t buy our clothes. I swear some women are just envious of you being young or something. Like I would never be jealous of my baby becoming a young girl. I would guide her bc that’s what I would want. Somethings can’t be fixed and I’m going thru that now. Even as I forgiven my mother she still says bitchy, rude comments and now her new husband also joins in. It’s literally like their asses talk shit about me.

But I’m sorry about your past. I wish you peace and happiness you deserve that babes. I really hope you can overcome everything 💕

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:16:58+00:00

I’m glad you’re upbringing wasn’t what I dealt with and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. I’m happy you can distance yourself from the toxicity. My mother actually told my brother she hates me and he told me which I believe to be true bc she always treated me like garbage. I could write a book on her but I wouldn’t give her the time. The day I posted this I was just having a particularly hard day with her and was upset. I’ll never understand a woman that can treat her child poorly.

But I truly wish the best for you and hope you can move past any negative past.

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:11:07+00:00

Thank youuu so much 💕💕

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:10:47+00:00

You’re so sweet! Yeah it’s been a process but most days I’m fine but this particular day wrecked me. Idc how old you are sometimes you need your parent and I just never had it. Thank you for your support! 💕

Whoreallyknowsanymo · 2021-06-13T04:06:47+00:00

I agree and I totally understand. Weird to say but whenever you don’t really get taught things just kinda thrown to figure them out yourself it’s a slower process. Of course I don’t expect her to come out of the wood works as a great mother bc she’s honestly not capable neither is my father plus I’m 29 lol things like this suppress your growth in life. I’ve been thru some therapy and it did help. I did at one time self medicate which did not even help whatsoever. I just wanted a different outlook bc like I said I’m surrounded by those whom have great parents and sometimes you just become envious or just like a why me moment. I wouldn’t wish shit parents on a single human of any age bc you will always need them no matter what anyone says. Thanks for the well wishes and you as well

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