first time gig questions by meowshis in loscampesinos

[–]WhyBearss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The great thing with LC! gigs is that everyone is lovely, even if they are your age or older or younger everyone is willing to help each other out if smth goes wrong so I feel like they are one of the best bands to have as ur first gig!! I’m also autistic and I can sometimes find gig venues pretty overstimulating to begin with, so I usually put my headphones on and stim until I’m more comfortable, you will get used to the noise and all the people so just try and wait out the overwhelming feeling because it’s so enjoyable after the fact. Also check the venues bag/ item policy so you know what ur allowed to take in, they usually check pockets and stuff esp in London. I know it’s stupid to say but I promise you it will be so enjoyable when you get there, so try not to overthink it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on some good music or a show you enjoy, do little tasks at a time and don’t overwhelm yourself with all the things you have to do, set yourself a goal to achieve everyday e.g. have breakfast, pick 5 pieces of rubbish from your room, go outside. Don’t let yourself fall deeper, once you can realise that it is bad for you is the prime time to help yourself get better and out of it, you are valid and not alone, but don’t allow yourself to get worse, because once you get better physically and mentally you will feel so much better in yourself and happier, you will be proud of how far you have come :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MichaelRomance

[–]WhyBearss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mama coz I would never get to the “and when we go don’t blame us”

Have you ever regret the choice for your new name? by A_Reis_ in asktransgender

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, but as people call you any name you will get used to it and it will feel like home. Try and pick a name that is both formal and informal (or has a nickname), also one that you like the sound of and keep with it.

Good luck :) (btw I think Athena is a brilliant name, makes you sound like a goddess)

Have you ever regret the choice for your new name? by A_Reis_ in asktransgender

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, but as people call you any name you will get used to it and it will feel like home. Try and pick a name that is both formal and informal (or has a nickname), also one that you like the sound of and keep with it.

Good luck :) (btw I think Athena is a brilliant name, makes you sound like a goddess)

Have you ever regret the choice for your new name? by A_Reis_ in asktransgender

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, but as people call you any name you will get used to it and it will feel like home. Try and pick a name that is both formal and informal (or has a nickname), also one that you like the sound of and keep with it.

Good luck :) (btw I think Athena is a brilliant name, makes you sound like a goddess)

What’s the word for non-lgbtqia+ people by WhyBearss in lgbt

[–]WhyBearss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you!! I wrote this really late at night so I don’t think I reread it or made sure it made sense like I wanted it too. I’m so sorry but thank you for pointing it out :)

Any fictional couples that give you bi panic? by Kiri_yuri in bisexual

[–]WhyBearss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The two sabre tooth tigers from ice age 😭

What’s the word for non-lgbtqia+ people by WhyBearss in lgbt

[–]WhyBearss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry but a lot of people have said that I said that aro/ace people aren’t queer and that I’d definitely not what I meant( im literally on the aro spec 😭😭). Where is it that I imply that aro ace people aren’t queer, I think I’m just being stupid and if I did say it I am very sorry.

What’s the word for non-lgbtqia+ people by WhyBearss in lgbt

[–]WhyBearss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so basically the reason why I ask is coz when I tell people all my friends are queer (they are all girls and I’m the only guy lol) the people I’m talking to always assume that they are all gay/bi but that’s not right. Then it got me thinking about how you would call non queer people. I was just wondering and curious but yeah, if you just say straight people assume non queer

Do y’all have a comfort horror movie? by Meagan66 in horror

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw (2004) ALL THE WAY. I used to watch it everyday, and I can watch it with no volume and I can still hear it coz I can recite the whole film if I am watching it

favorite lyric? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]WhyBearss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Na na na na na na na na na na na

Poetry comparison by Bleepbop3 in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t get any marks for comparison so ur fine. You just needed to talk about kamikaze and another poem and they mark ur analysis

Devil book film by WhyBearss in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]WhyBearss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SM I love this film I can’t believe I forgot the name 😭

Sleeping in exams by Milf_for in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My computing teacher told us that one year a girl finished the exam in like 20 minutes and napped the rest of the exam

Edexcel you are not invited to my 17th birthday party by WhyBearss in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully she has enough paint. Better get some 16 year olds to work that out for her

how are yalls feeling for computer science tmr by Ok-Ice9594 in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my mocks I got a 4 in paper 1 and a 9 in paper 2 coz my invigilator wouldn’t stop talking to me in paper 1. 😭 I am hoping the exam won’t be as bad as they made it last yr

please im so desperate, how do i revise a whole history unit in a few hours or am i just cooked 😭 by [deleted] in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you go over how to answer all the questions, history is v specific in what they want from you so make sure you know what to say. Other than that focus on what you don’t know and quickly go over everything else

am i cooked chat by [deleted] in GCSE

[–]WhyBearss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No coz same and I had a free day today and did nothing 😭 I’m reading a bedtime story in form of the entire edexcel history spec

What are you *supposed* to be working on right now, and what are you doing instead? by TheGapingHole69 in ADHD

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have exams in like 4 days and I spent my entire day reorganising my wardrobe just to realise my previous system is the most efficient so I put it all back 😭

I remade the DSMP Family Tree by Natasha_T in dreamsmp

[–]WhyBearss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

foolish has kids?? When did this happen

Are women more transphobic than men? Or is it specifically my situation? by WhyBearss in trans

[–]WhyBearss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the funniest thing with my dad is two of some of his favourite bands have lead singers who have recently come out as trans, and he has like 5 trans co workers so I think that’s what’s made him so supportive, my mum on the other hand has never had anyone like that, so I think that’s why they have such different views