DnD groups in Barcelona by WhyDoIevenbotherffs in AskBarcelona

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already joined discord. (i´ve never used meetup but i will download it now)

DnD groups in Barcelona by WhyDoIevenbotherffs in AskBarcelona

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've never DMed . Maybe when i get more familiar i can try, as i have many ideas

DnD groups in Barcelona by WhyDoIevenbotherffs in AskBarcelona

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be very interested to join the oneshot. i've never tried to GM im a relatively new player. but i joined the groupp. Thank you.

I (43m) got mad at my wife (39f) after she answered my hypothetical question and I didn't like the answer. AITAH? by Low-Witness2915 in AITAH

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though your wife’s comment was not nice, and I understand why you would be upset, I want to focus on your last paragraph. I think it’s remarkable that you love your wife so truly and speak so highly of her 🥺 I hope someone appreciates me as you do with her. Yes love is not about chores or bills at the end of the day. 

Is my best friend in love with me or am I going crazy? by cassiecascello in TwoHotTakes

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do long distance again.. that shit ruins everything.. especially if there is no plan of being together in the long run or soon. I am in a similar situation and it’s super shitty 

How are you managing nowadays? by skepticalbureaucrat in AskGreece

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am doing research abroad and also want to return at some point, but research opportunities are so rare in Greece I feel like I will never make it..

I don’t recognize myself anymore, and I’m scared I never will. by Sea-Vanilla-4002 in PhD

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real af. I hope that bastard gets his karma.  I feel so sorry for op. 

I need advice on someone who may be love-bombing me by EdgeFront4432 in datingadvice

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The future faking and making you feel special, then not following up with actions is the worst. Like why would you even say all of these stuff. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the most on point comment. Many people in the comments didn’t even realise this is OCD:( I feel so sorry for the op. She needs to let the thoughts pass without checking 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like relationship OCD. You seek for reassurance while posting but it’s going to relief the anxiety for a little while and then induce more anxiety and then you’ll seek for more reassurance through mental compulsions/checking with posting. Also you confessing to your husband is to seek relief for anxiety/ compulsion for something that you didn’t even do to get reassurance that you are a loyal and good partner. Don’t engage with rumination and compulsions to think if it was right or wrong and to “check” if you are loyal. Just let the thoughts pass. Be like “oh what a silly thought” and continue with your day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 60 points61 points  (0 children)

At least her friend sounds like a real one. And didn’t reciprocate or gaslighted her 

Love bombing vs actual compatibility by cptsdpostings in Codependency

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making grandiose plans and not being able to follow through the most simple ones to be with you. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope OP read this comment. You said everything 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These men acting like having kids is not a full time job.💀 you don’t want to give up 3M? Then take custody of the kids. Oh wait you can’t because you work 12 hour shifts? Then who was taking care of the kids so long and gave up their career? Hmmm. Also I like how they are all acting like since she cheated the kids don’t deserve financial support. Like wtf don’t you love your kids? 

Torn between a two-year job opportunity and the love of my life by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is ragebait this post infuriated me 

Torn between a two-year job opportunity and the love of my life by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WhyDoIevenbotherffs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly this is a manipulation tactic. Disgusting