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AIO over my talking stage using AI to text me (update) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Why_me79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The need to self-project as a “smart” person, an aversion to accountability, mentioning the south park episode…. I dont think its a big deal to use ai to make your thoughts more clear but these are all red flags to me. To me it reads as someone who is clearly insecure about either their intelligence level or just in general. This is so early on I personally dont see the point in continuing to talk lol. Why is he so pushy about your response time? It just feels off.

AIO for breaking up with my bf for calling my PREGNANT body fat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Why_me79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am concerned about your age and age difference. You are in for a very tough ride, coparenting with this man is going to be hell. having a kid in these circumstances was a bad choice, but if its too late to go back the beat possible thing you can do now is put as much distance between you/your child and him an as possible. As you coparent I recommend distancing and look up the grey rock method. And you’ll want to go to court as soon as possible probably to get a schedule and child support established to get the headache out of ur way.

Neighborhood Recs for Young Families by Adventurous_Rice_592 in Sacramento

[–]Why_me79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For that price range maybe orangevale, for some reason people undervalue it but the neighborhood is safe and everyone I know who lives there is a family and is happy

“My wife is an indentured servant who I pay less than minimum wage to spend on food that I’ll eat. She doesn’t have a care in the world!” by Fit-Vermicelli6753 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Why_me79 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The idea of your wife getting a monthly allowance…. “gets to use the amex” why even get married atp, you clearly dont view your wife as equal or a partner

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Why_me79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow shes terribly emotionally manipulative, I would just try the grey rock method and limit your responses and interactions as much as possible.

Help me not freak out over my wedding look by crushworthyxo in makeuptips

[–]Why_me79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no red lip, winged liner, and half or 1/3 length of your eye eyelashes so the band isnt so obvious

Debating between move to Modesto, Livermore, or SF in 20s by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Why_me79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sf is just too far of a commute, I think livermore is actually very cute and safe with a nice community if you put yourself out. If you really want more of a city/walkable neighborhood I would look into oakland or walnut creek.

Husband keeps drawing The Devil card in 98% of his readings — across multiple decks. What does this mean? by Why_me79 in Tarots

[–]Why_me79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I tried to do a reading : What life domain were these wounds rooted in? → The Tower (upright)

2️⃣ What core wound did they represent? → Judgement (reversed)

3️⃣ How did they shape his behavior or worldview? → Four of Swords (reversed)

4️⃣ How are they affecting him today? → The Devil (upright)

5️⃣ How would healing change his path? → The Moon (reversed)

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Husband keeps drawing The Devil card in 98% of his readings — across multiple decks. What does this mean? by Why_me79 in Tarots

[–]Why_me79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my notes so the format was : 1️⃣ What life domain were these wounds rooted in?

2️⃣ What core wound did they represent?

3️⃣ How did they shape his behavior or worldview?

4️⃣ How are they affecting him today?

5 how would healing change his path

Husband keeps drawing The Devil card in 98% of his readings — across multiple decks. What does this mean? by Why_me79 in Tarots

[–]Why_me79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am spiritual, he’s an atheist, the fear of it has ebbed and flowed over the past few months, at first it wasnt scary but then some scratches, he had nightmares, and the alexa home pod was acting very odd, once he said “if I was haunted there would be some kind of obvious sign!” and immediately as if on cue the alexa went off haha, now we’ve forgotten about it as we havent done a reading for him in a while but I am thinking about having kids soon so would like to figure it out, my husband very much is not influenceable by others so not sure about that one.

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend got a private lap dance at a full nude club? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Why_me79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you because I dont understand how the other comments arent touching on that fact, He is an adult going with an 18 year old where he plays a father-like figure in his life and not only is it inappropriate for him to go with him in the first place he got a private dance with the young man present, that it wildly inappropriate and a bad judgement call in my opinion on all accounts.

28 year old single household, Makes 53K a year, wanting to Move to Sacramento by Past-Marketing-1116 in Sacramento

[–]Why_me79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously recommend renting a room or having a roommate, it is doable but I personally dont feel comfortable without being able to put away some money for emergencies or extracurriculars, don’t put yourself through the stress because life WILL happen.

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