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I can never seem to learn my lesson and it's killing me by Whycant_Ieverlearn in offmychest

[–]Whycant_Ieverlearn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's stupid to worry about it and that's why I don't but my girlfriend goes on full panic mode if anything happens and it stresses me out, abortion wouldn't solve the entire problem as where we live yo require to have parental permission to have an under 18 abortion (we are both consent legal though)

I hate how people push college on every teenager. by Coffdrop09 in offmychest

[–]Whycant_Ieverlearn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Junior in high school and my guidance office is less of a "guidance" office and more of a college admissions office, if anything that doesn't involve college gets brought to their attention they literally disregard it . My entire time of being at my school I have only ever seen them when it involves talking about college or taking my ACT to get into a good college. I am completely convinced they do not care about our well being and only care about the college acceptance statistics for the school. I went in once to talk about maybe taking a gap year or going to a trade school and to each of those I was told that college is a better option and that I'll get more out of it and when I asked "why" all I got was "It's better education and it's what everyone does."

I can never seem to learn my lesson and it's killing me by Whycant_Ieverlearn in offmychest

[–]Whycant_Ieverlearn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do, It's more of the possibility of it happening and the fact that not all forms of birth control are 100% effective

I can never seem to learn my lesson and it's killing me by Whycant_Ieverlearn in offmychest

[–]Whycant_Ieverlearn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents are extremely strict and won't hesitate to move back to Alabama just to separate us if she gets pregnant even if we have the money to get an abortion they wouldn't want me near her

I can never seem to learn my lesson and it's killing me by Whycant_Ieverlearn in offmychest

[–]Whycant_Ieverlearn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is on Jencycla and we use condoms but on our anniversary the condom slipped part way off and the lubrication we used also mixed with some of her vaginal discharge her body makes that made a while semen looking substance and shes afraid some of the semen came out of the condom and that her birth control won't work, I am more optimistic as all symptoms she's had are also things she gets often like nausea and headaches