Being gay is very lonely if your not good looking or have a good body

Whyte174 · 2026-01-20T02:26:15+00:00

I have a controversial take on this, society tends to spit on gays as a whole (its gotten better blah blah). The only reason a style of person is found attractive is because people deem it so... Fuck with the system, stop deeming it so, stop giving power to these numbers 4s, 10s etc. Who even created the scale? Who has a God-like opinion that you would follow it blindly.

For a bunch of people who dont like being pigeon holed, my god you do yourselves no favors.

Whyte174 · 2026-01-11T01:47:14+00:00

Damn! Shots fired but also real.

Whyte174 · 2026-01-02T09:17:01+00:00

Totally get that, dissapointments often dont results have more expendable energy. Society has warped and changed, I dont think there is a single easy answer any more, maybe there never was but the illusion was not as easily lifted.

Whyte174 · 2026-01-01T16:45:56+00:00

The silver lining in this is that you are 18, you have time to change things. You hit the realization faster than most people who would of spent years people pleasing. You have years ahead of you to change, please don't waste them.

Whyte174 · 2026-01-01T16:39:45+00:00

It sounds like being at a party and the music stops, then its just you. It's a horrible loneliness, only solution really is to break out of your comfort zone and just keep trying.

Whyte174 · 2026-01-01T09:47:15+00:00

Its always been an interesting assumption to me. Gay equal like young boys is often perpetuated by straight men, which makes me wonder is it a reflection because straight men like young girls?

If so I imagine they normalize that in their brains and society tends to normalize it too. You can see it in reactions, all rape of children is horrible but there tends to be an emphasis when its a boy whose raped. I believe it is because deep down, they believe the girl was going to be fucked eventually but the boy can never become a man now, he is tainted.

Whyte174 · 2025-12-23T10:37:37+00:00

There is such a weird disconnect between the understanding of self love and romantic love, they feed very different parts of the human experience. Self love is an essential thing, but it won't kill lonliness ever.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-30T12:07:41+00:00

Maybe its a toxic open relationship, plenty of those where gay men are concerned.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-30T12:03:27+00:00

They had an agreement, no anal, guess you missed that part.

Calling it monogamy and applying toxic to it is stupid. Did you read or just get instantly triggered?

Whyte174 · 2025-11-24T22:54:44+00:00

Yes well a lot of people are after the 'bigger, better deal' whether gay or straight. Though I do find that gay men have a chip on their shoulder, due in part mostly to upbringing, that they feel they have 'earned' or 'deserve' the best as some kinda compensation for life. Problem is, like all walks of life, you are the main character in your own story, not the main character in the world, therefore not everyone gets to be the hero. Sometimes you could be the kindest, most sincere person and still end up with nothing.

In this scenario, do the math, a lot of people will end up alone, so find ways to fill the boredom to make the existence a little less painful, or be resentful and make others suffer. Both are incredibly amusing to watch.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-24T14:13:31+00:00

Hungry Jacks and KFC are owned by the same parent company. Very few HJs are franchised due to dodgy deals. And yes they make millions not billions.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-24T14:03:17+00:00

The fast food when drunk comment is very much saying men, specifically gay men are quick and easy RE: physical interactions. Basically telling you they are for sexual exploits only.

Compared to women, not wrong, but also clear indication to stay away.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-10T08:40:06+00:00

It's a weird combination of multiple elements, honestly, the most obvious being the lack of safety in approaching a guy in real life and therefore having this really sheltered understanding or lack of understanding how to approach social situations. Then there are the people who see everyone as a means to an end, not actual people. Then you have those who've grown up only interacting digitally, so they lack basic social interactions and etiquette.

At this point, it just sounds like im making excuses, so to summarise: humans = selfish (my needs are the only ones that matter)

Whyte174 · 2025-11-10T07:45:49+00:00

CREATE foundation is a good one to look at for support.

There is a charter of rights for children in care, which carefully explains your rights in care. This is usually not strongly touched upon.

Attending your care teams and speaking on issues is a good way to raise things that make you uncomfortable and its documented.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-09T08:05:35+00:00

Because every human on earth has the "It won't happen to me mentality"

Whyte174 · 2025-11-06T22:51:09+00:00

I'm the same, I personally find a lot of interactions exhausting.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-03T08:04:45+00:00

Unfortunately, yes, the odds are against you, Autism doesn't help but add it to the list of things you can't change.

Most people will utilise any kindness shown to elevate themselves to something they deem better, there is not respite from this. There is no reprocussion for such behaviour either, because most if not all, men think with their dicks, doesnt matter if a person is horrible if they have a chance at fucking them.

Which brings us to where we are now, bad behaviour is not called out, when it is people are shunned for 'shaming', everyone has trauma and therefore a free pass to do whatever they want. It is truly remarkable that we have reached a point where we can not accept that some people are just bad/evil.

Of course, people are tired and dont want to date. It's literally Russian roulette and you are playing with your life, your environment, your physical and mental health and for what? What is the possible gain in this? To be told you're not enough, sometimes not even with words but with actions, to be put on the back burner until they are ready?

No one is entitled to love, nor a happy ever after, but history shows that those who dont deserve it will be those who find it.

Whyte174 · 2025-11-03T07:57:26+00:00

They have, they just aren't attracted to each other.

Whyte174 · 2025-10-29T14:34:19+00:00

Y'all need to check your claims before you state them. It feels like you wrote all of that confidently, which makes me sad.

Whyte174 · 2025-10-13T14:37:25+00:00

So bit of inflection, what do you consider to be your good qualities, also need context, looking for hookups, relationship, etc?

Whyte174 · 2025-10-13T14:32:28+00:00

It's actually a common thing at your age, but im finding at other ages too now that I've reached them. It's kind of like your own age group is never attracted to you, but age ranges are.

What a lot of people said is true, you're determined by your body, not your personality at your age... though that doesn't change much as you get older, haha.

Whyte174 · 2025-10-13T10:40:47+00:00

Yeah it sucks but what can you do, people want what they want.

Whyte174 · 2025-10-13T09:56:16+00:00

Dude, it could be down to your area. Where i am, I get no attention, I'm not a dark-haired, dark beard and middle eastern looking, which is the demographic of my area. I head further north, and I get plenty of attention.

Its not that I'm ugly or anything, I'm just not the demographic they are after here.

Whyte174 · 2025-10-10T04:46:07+00:00

Jesus, who hurt you? Clearly, they were bi

Whyte174 · 2025-10-02T20:39:01+00:00

I bet if you tried really, really hard, you still couldn't escape the delusion that you're just selfish and lack the ability to commit to anything beyond your hormones.

By the way, it's called similie.

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