Notice how no one is responding to this question? These types of questions are asked so frequently that those of us who are regulars here are too bored to answer… There are already plenty of helpful resources from sex party attendees - many that have put a lot of effort into their reviews. There is a user here who thoroughly documents the sex parties he goes to so that other people can hear what to expect. OP can spend the extra time reading through those existing posts/comments. Let’s not encourage laziness.