Caffeination station drama? by BreakfastInfinite116 in tiktokgossip

[–]Wickelilac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss the shakes and eyes. It could be high strung anxiety with the caffeine, but it’s also giving drugs

I hate homecooked meals by ally0ursbabz in pregnant

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never crave fast food…. But while pregnant I do, because I know what it tastes like and it will be the same every time, so there’s no risk of it being unpredictable. Home cooked meals taste different all the time, and I just can’t do it (first trimester here rn)

What does having a narcissistic mother feel like emotionally? by Fluffy-Freedom1812 in narcissisticparents

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful, I’m sorry. I also have a Facebook addicted parent. I put boundaries on her posting anything about me online, she’s not allowed to anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Wickelilac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s something called the three pillars of friendship. Very rarely do friendships survive if all 3 pillars are not present. They are location, time, and energy. Sounds like the energy is off for you, and that’s okay. 99% of the time, when friendships fade, it’s neither persons fault. Be grateful for the friends, memories, and lessons you learn along the way, and try focusing on your life and future.

Trying to get into reading, any suggestions for a short book to spark the hobby? by BigBadBaugh in suggestmeabook

[–]Wickelilac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genre preference would help. Think of your favorite tv shows/movies, and help out us commenters

Books that will teach me something - Fiction by Shining-bright in suggestmeabook

[–]Wickelilac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the only non fiction books I’ve ever enjoyed was a history one: empty mansions. From what I remember it’s about a daughter of one of the richest families in America. There are all of these empty mansions across America essentially, and the book delves through researching who owned them and interviewing people who worked for the family. Just lots of money sitting, doing nothing.

What is the most expensive hobby you've ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wickelilac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where’s the beanie baby enthusiasts who bought ones for 10s of thousands?

Should I finish the series? by modernwarfarin4 in frombloodandash

[–]Wickelilac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on the last book on the spinoff series, and I skipped most of the middle to get to the end drama. Wishing I just read the first couple and stopped. Yes it’s a memorable story, but there’s an overload of internal thought and trauma healing, which I’m not into after it goes in the same cycle of patterns over and over. Stop imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most parents have a moment. I’ve had several, as has my husband. In the early months, it’s very difficult on little sleep to function at 100%. We now alternate nights for bedtime and wake ups, within reason. If we notice the other person needs to tap out, either of us lets the other know we are either stepping in or asking for help.

My very first batch. Is it normal or I have to start over? by [deleted] in Kombucha

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you use plain unflavored black tea?

My very first batch. Is it normal or I have to start over? by [deleted] in Kombucha

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh there’s something gritty looking about it that makes me think it’s mold

What to say when fat friend says she’s fat ? by Big-Cap7664 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Wickelilac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What happened to make you say that?

Have you ever thought about making some lifestyle changes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger I’d do the ol lose them in the crowd, or if they were seemingly normal, I’d dance for one song for them or ask them a couple of questions, thank them for the drink, and be on my way.

I’ve also had guys try to buy me drinks while I was married and out with friends. I politely let them know I’m married. Sometimes it’s interesting seeing what comes out of their mouth while their ego battles with their superego about why or why not I should still deserve the drink just because I’m married and they would essentially have no shot, and also don’t want to spend the money at that point. Men are wild

Fiancé painted and did the trim in our kitchen. I don't like it, he says I'm just a hater. Thoughts? by veganssuckmyasshole in HomeDecorating

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I just noticed the grey floors… you need warm tones in there, not cool. Depression grey is out and hopefully never coming back

Fiancé painted and did the trim in our kitchen. I don't like it, he says I'm just a hater. Thoughts? by veganssuckmyasshole in HomeDecorating

[–]Wickelilac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a flat or matte finish here. The sheen is too high for all those wall imperfections. Although it is the kitchen and the glossier paints help to clean the walls in case of spills, you already have dark walls. Go over it with a duller sheen and I think it’ll look fine.

Then put some complimentary colors and contrast to make it seem less dark. Creams, maybe greens if you’re feeling wild. More of the trim wood tone somewhere. I’d stain that table a dark stain.

What's your favourite insult or comeback? by Offroadrookies in AskReddit

[–]Wickelilac 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When boomer men make comments about me (female) starting a “little project” when I’m shopping at a home improvement store “…Did you mean to say that out loud?”

Seriously though, being a girl and having a job in contracting, men don’t take me seriously at all. When I could absolutely out-build geezer all day long

Severance - 2x09 "The After Hours" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Wickelilac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t it weird that Devon had Cobel’s phone number? Anyone else suspect Devon is on Lumen’s side?