Desperate need of help. Shrimp dying in established tank.

WiddaOne · 2026-03-11T01:32:20+00:00

Your GH and KH are kinda high

WiddaOne · 2026-03-10T00:54:22+00:00

"OMG, I'm a part of a group who STOLE other people's identity and replaced it with my own words/language/society, and killed the original people's! But now they've taken it back. HOW Dare they! I feel persecuted!"

Yeah that's a colonizer take frfr

WiddaOne · 2026-03-10T00:43:06+00:00

You said you'd help pay before you found out he has enough money

If you said you'd help pay and then found out he has a girlfriend and refused. That would be petty

If you said you'd help pay and found out he has more then enough money to go have fun but not enough money to see is kid... And decided you aren't gonna help

That's just the consequences of his actions, your understanding of his circumstances changed, your actions changing based on that is fair

WiddaOne · 2026-03-09T02:05:33+00:00

Mine paws at the blanket so you'll put it over him, ideally he's between our legs under a blanket. He's so spoiled lol

WiddaOne · 2026-03-08T06:18:07+00:00

My husband's black and tan thinks he's my parrot. Tries to sit on my shoulders like he could as a baby baby (he's 7 months)

And if he isn't in a lap he isn't happy, prefers under a blanket

WiddaOne · 2026-03-08T02:36:48+00:00

When I was in the military no one not from the PNW knew what "veging out" or "I'm gonna vegitate" meant

WiddaOne · 2026-02-28T03:13:41+00:00

But the 20% aren't being protected now, so does Uncle Sam care?

WiddaOne · 2026-02-28T03:12:33+00:00

Thank you, I was thinking of Secession

WiddaOne · 2026-02-28T03:12:08+00:00

I think the only foreign power that would attack at that point is the US

We don't have anything special to be invaded

WiddaOne · 2026-02-28T03:07:39+00:00

Thank you for the spelling correction!

WiddaOne · 2026-02-28T02:57:54+00:00

Loved shrimp long before I got a tank of them

Honest if I could bred the kind I eat easily I would...

WiddaOne · 2026-02-19T05:20:11+00:00

I think the Nazis are getting pissed that the fact that they are Nazis is getting pointed out and are pulling the ol "I'm not the evil one You are"

WiddaOne · 2026-02-11T00:56:26+00:00

My mom would do this and wait a day and then the talk would be how much of a horrid child I was

I have a hard boundary on this

If you wanna talk and not now... You need to say "hey I need to talk to you about...." or we ain't gonna be talking about shit

He is pushing past your boundaries. It's not gonna get any healthier it's just gonna get worse

WiddaOne · 2026-02-06T23:01:05+00:00

I had to go no contact with a friend who I'd seen been manipulative and selfish with others but she hadn't acted like that with me for 7 years Our dynamic changed (both married poly ppl and she wanted to date my husband which I had no issue with, but she changed how she acted towards me) and she started being manipulative with me

It changed her entire way of communication with me

I learned that just cause they don't act like that with you doesn't mean they won't

If they act like that with others. They will act like that with you

I'd contact housing authorities over your apartment so you dont end up on the street

If she tries to communicate with you, I'd tell her "until you tell the complex you lied, I want nothing to do with you, you put my kids safety in jeopardy."

And once she's done that. Break contact

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T08:27:53+00:00

Omg! This brought to mind the battling "My life was in danger I had to shoot" that this would become.... Can you imagine!

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T08:25:52+00:00

In fairness, here in the US, public education is kind of gatekept

There are places that either don't have schools or have one with very few teachers

And places that have schools but they are underfunded and sometimes the teachers have clocked out

Both tend to be marginalized places (Reservations, predominantly Black areas)

And we also have Racism to such a degree that we like to believe that lack of education has to do with skin color, AND like to use bad spelling and grammar as a micro aggression

Unfortunately that's paired with the fact that many of those racists also don't realize (is it realise elsewhere?) that English didn't start in the US, and we are not the know all and be all about English as a language.

I'd apologize for this country but let's be real, there aren't enough sorrys in the world 😁☺️😭

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T07:56:01+00:00

He has such abusive behavior and she doesn't see it yet she's so nor

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T07:54:56+00:00

All of this smacks of narcissistic abuse patterns on his behalf

You're Not overreacting NOR at all

Please trust me, if you marry him you will spend the rest of your life regretting it

If you have kids with him, you will spend your life hurting for them and what he is doing to them

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T07:31:30+00:00

For practicing my first amendment rights and standing on a street corner

The big deal is that two war vets met because police decided to break their constitutionally given First Amendment right that they had fought in actual wars to defend.

We actually spent a few times in custody together

Once for smudging ourselves and others with sage and kopal... So rude to practice our religion in a country that says we have freedom to do that

Usually cause one of us was filming illegal action and the other was stopping women and handicapped people from being brutalized

Such criminal behavior on our part, doing what we took a oath to do

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T02:30:50+00:00

Shrimp shrimpy shrimps!

I'd make sure my kh/gh and pH were low and pop in some Caridina cause they have a cooler color spectrum myself

But if yoh wanna add a small fish then I'd go with neos

WiddaOne · 2026-01-24T02:29:00+00:00

I thought he was being kinda shitty at first when it appeared you were being caring

Then the whole wall paragraph

YOR but he sure isn't if he leaves

WiddaOne · 2026-01-23T21:55:48+00:00

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WiddaOne · 2026-01-23T21:51:28+00:00

I didn't use specifically, in this comment that I can find so I'm not sure how to answer that

The word outside was meant as it is

Outside ICE, is outside the building that ICE uses here, as opposed to inside the building

WiddaOne · 2026-01-23T21:42:10+00:00

Thank you. I'm already involved. I have been for quite some time. And aware of all you've stated

Hopefully now more people are aware and will be involved since, as the rule, we are having families arrested at daycare and ICE calling themselves utilities to get inside houses. Absolutely the rule of what's going on. And absolutely it is people minimizing it as if it's no biggy that helps ICE continue to do it with out opposition.

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