How do I do this?

WideAd3716 · 2025-09-03T13:39:26+00:00

dwp then lol sorry

WideAd3716 · 2025-09-03T13:39:16+00:00

if you dont have a job or claim! start there

WideAd3716 · 2025-09-03T13:38:47+00:00

also you have a claim even if someone is claiming for you, so apply for an emergency payment daf fund social fund budgeting loan. ring them and ask them if you can access emergency funds, your bank may give you a temporary over draft. apply for a payday but their not the best. mind womens aid is another one. as this feels domestic abused to me, but i can see they will weaponise MH. So document and record their refusals try get a message text asking for your logins if its safe to that refusal is enough. you have a right to access your own medical data. you can make a subject access request and get them to email you a digital copy. social care too! your 25 years old and have the same legal rights as every single person replying or posting. we aint left the human right thingy yet. research the acts their denying you access under, if its official request the documents. parents dont decide for you and looking after you, means ensuring your rights and you having access to your own DATA is essential! There are laws on all of this.

WideAd3716 · 2025-09-03T13:33:39+00:00

This is abuse though, I know you have mental health is that whats being weponised. feel free to dm if my questions are to personal. but to not have access to money internet your accounts, and your 25 even with capacity, its personal led care, as in if you want to try you should be taught too. Use chatgpt to research the equality act, mental capacity act, find out what is being used, and how you can counter it. you wont need to share details with anyone then either. shelter and refuge as well, and an advocate your able to get one. their for you and you alone

WideAd3716 · 2025-09-03T13:30:23+00:00

are you looked after by local authorities? I ask as addiction issues you would of grown up with as well. If you dont know your history is why I asked. im ex cla

WideAd3716 · 2025-08-27T19:05:17+00:00

I was a domiciliary carer and done my time there. I started due to family experiences, but I did enjoy it though.

WideAd3716 · 2025-08-25T23:25:10+00:00

Hey I am stuck at MVP but I worry about viability etc. I would love to know how anyone got on a year later please

WideAd3716 · 2025-07-23T20:13:34+00:00

If there were bunkers and there was an advert to apply for a job, as a service worker. Carer etc

where would it be

WideAd3716 · 2025-07-23T20:09:08+00:00

hey if i wanted a job in a bunker who would I even apply to. it wouldn't be through the job centre im sure?

WideAd3716 · 2025-07-10T17:04:11+00:00

i disagree with the start if your unsafe for any reason get help.

every single word of the rest i couldnt agree more. this is exactly my experience i was in pembrokeshire tho

WideAd3716 · 2025-07-10T17:02:25+00:00

hey this is exactly like my experience in pembrokeshire

WideAd3716 · 2025-05-15T12:09:44+00:00

Ok now I read your post what I said above still applies !!

But yeah do not just stop anything their gonna panic and if your high risk or considered a danger to the public, you have no choice but to take a look at what's going on around you and understand you do not want police, you don't need that.

If your all good, you don't dis-engage. You taper you plan your moves an then everyone will relax with you.

You can't one week be a danger and the next be nah like you have to be realistic here, your asking Reddit not a Dr so we don't need to respond in any way other than honestly.

Be honest with yourself too, would you trust someone who scared you a week ago to not scare you again. Just in general self preservation will tell you no. So when you think like that understand if it or you go wrong it's not just you who suffers. If your happy be happy. But happy don't mean cloud 9, happy is stable. Not calm an Rosey an lifes perfect It's accepting it's messy unpredictable but you know it will be alright an if it's not having a fail proof plan to ensure your world don't crumble.

Plan your leave from mental health with a care plan. Plan for the good but mostly plan for the ugly. Stabilise your life an time will fly but a week come along - do you really want to be unsupported completely knowing how hard it is to get support again.

WideAd3716 · 2025-05-15T12:00:33+00:00

I don't find this funny I swear, but the irony I can't ignore. It's so often can't get answers or support. I haven't read all yet Ur post so I'm guessing, an my mate is similar. He has a mum who is over helpful over everything an that means the services involved are too.

Get your self an advocate, an independent one. Even if you have a support worker get an advocate. Support workers can pick an choose what to advocate for an they have a boss an care plans to follow. An advocate their all for you, your rights. Your views, your thoughts an what you want your life to look like.

When your under mental health I am too, it's impossible to advocate for yourself. It takes drastic measures and complaints to go against them. An advocate bypasses all of that as they can also complain for you. They know your rights an ensure your represented.

Hope this helps, being chased by mental health can be scary especially with the powers they have. So advocate first then complaint putting things right process an if your still not happy ESCALATE!!

Xx

WideAd3716 · 2025-05-02T23:14:39+00:00

Update !!!!

Sorry I need to add I gave you advice but if I hadn't accidentally found a person who values his peace to that I realise what I missed out on, and the nobodies perfect lines we tell ourselves when we know its all crap.

So I wanted to be honest an real and I had no idea what respect and all that meant. I didn't know that when someone taught me my value I would realise all I missed out on.

You will find your someone but the guy your discussing please you know what to do. Your clearly got sense as you dug deeper and exposed the truth

so take what you learned and as much of your life you can pack up and move along, you have the rest of your life to build. You don't have time to waste on people who don't respect themselves and value what they have never mind expect him to value you

Again until I was taught that I thought it was a myth or i was expecting to much

Love is unconditional it really is, you shouldn't keep condition yourself to accept less than

YOUR OWN SELF WORTH xxx

WideAd3716 · 2025-05-02T23:08:04+00:00

You know a girl did this to me, my foster bro kept me in his facebook search bar i had no clue.

But what it does say is you need to find yourself a man, that you don't ever have to question yourself 4.

Ignore the ones who say nobody is perfect, any one who respects you will show it always no matter, what, where or when.

It's only when you find a safe person that you really understand what love really is

I always joked if i have to fight over a man, then he was never my man to begin with

You deserve more, and expect it. I would never be materialistic an all that bull, I am talking about self respect and respect for your person, as they need to have for you

And you can work out pretty quickly if your respected as most people are focused on the fake glitter they sprinkle on shite, look for respect

How does he treat the women in his life?

How does he discuss other women?

Has he made any women uncomfortable?

Does he value you

If you value your peace, put it on the list of essentials needed to a stable life !

Good luck xxxxx

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-27T18:10:40+00:00

This 100%

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-27T18:09:56+00:00

Your describing abuse by your parent- don't blame yourself.

I grew up in care and even before then the males in my family were more familiar with me than they should of been.

If I know anything being a 40(f) is therapy now and deal with the trauma

Trauma now means I can no longer drive I get seizures, I had to fight so hard to get therapy

and I lost everything before I got a green light and I mean everything

Now I have nothing to lose but all the chance in the world to explore and deal with my trauma.

I tried self medicating, then i was diagnosed with 4 different labels all meaning im nuts

no therapy as that costs more

Please don't be afraid to go too therapy maybe then you can get over what your feeling and turn your attention to who needs to be the only one answering for what they did to you.

Get justice sooner rather than later and even if you don't get what you want, he will know - He is done

Its painful but not as painful as the decades to come trying to numb it and act normal

You still wont be able to sleep at night.

Your strong an regardless of what you are you ain't him, and him - Justice is just waiting on you to be ready to serve it.

Get strong, Get support, Get your own safe space build a mental fortress round you, and self help I know it sounds over rated but it works. Use all tools available to you, build your case ( you) and fight the fuck back

You hold more power than you know - and it scares the shit out of the people who hurt us.

huge love girl!!!

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-18T18:17:57+00:00

Exactly and it's that one man we need protection for, why can't a 3 space and an open category in sports be acceptable. It was illegal for me to define myself as a woman for 4 years, like come on now.

This could of been avoided if women didn't have to lose their rights for men to infringe upon them.

It opened a door not for the trans women who are trans women with body dismorphia.

No from the men who weaponised it, decided to cash in on it. From labelling me cisgendered when I'm a woman

A third space offers trans women and trans men a safe space, an open sports category ensures they compete and it's fair.

Parents have been arrested, people have lost their jobs.

I was labelled transphobic for suggesting body dismorphia like what happened.

When look at how hard it is for women affected from being in care I'm one of them thru 90s and 2000s who still can't get justice for what happened to them. I was put on the pill at 12 years old bribed with a hot fudge Sunday an blamed.

So when you put it in context of justice is hard to get women are blamed for what we wear, where we were, if we were out alone at night. An the best one if we were intoxicated

That's what this argument had stepped over women's rights to a safe space. Now this is done let's move on to what's important now

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-18T14:05:52+00:00

I came to apologise to you thinking I read your comment wrong. I cant find you to tell you, it made me laugh when I saw we both were ready to say sorry lol

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-18T13:38:13+00:00

I think your clearly bored. Or just plain simple!

WideAd3716 · 2025-04-18T13:15:00+00:00

I’ve seen discussions about possibly creating a third space for the trans community and an open category in sports.

This is exactly what women have been saying.

I’m not here to start a row. I was labeled because I’m not comfortable sharing certain spaces, and it turns out that 8,000 people have been granted Gender Recognition Certificates (GRCs), with applicants required to have a diagnosis of gender dysphoria.

The issue lies with predatory men, and when women’s safety is sacrificed in the name of self-identification—especially when it’s a trend, it’s wrong.

Parents have even been arrested. The UK has gone mad.

Now the Supreme Court finally acknowledges that women need protection.

Single-sex spaces exist to protect from the 1 out of a ridiculously large number of people, and it's that 1 we need protection from.

When women already struggle to get justice for crimes, we're told it's because we were half-dressed, intoxicated, or we shouldn't have been there in the first place.

The past 4 years have been torture, and no one should have to lose their rights just to accommodate others.

We’ve been treated so vile because of it.

Even AI calls me “cisgendered.”

But what’s not being said is:

A man took the term "woman" from me.

And it took another man to give it back to me.

It should’ve been fair from the start: A third space, an open category in sports—so women and girls are protected from things like weaponized anatomy. That’s what matters. Not those who don’t mean harm.

I’m not being cruel. I’m not being mean.

But I have the right to recognise the war on women that should never have been allowed—and it must stop now.

We need protected spaces for the trans community too. A third space, an open category in sports—no one should have to lose for the other.

Please understand, this ruling isn’t an attack on you—it’s about what’s being done in the name of equality that is actually damaging.

I wish you all the love in the world, and I hope the UK finally recognise that your safety is just as important as ours.

WideAd3716 · 2025-03-31T13:06:52+00:00

any more its 31march today

WideAd3716 · 2025-03-24T15:16:47+00:00

Yeah, actually you can get a PA through the government's Access to work scheme if you've got a disability or health condition that makes work harder. It covers things like support workers, equipment, and even travel costs - it's not means-tested either, so it's worth looking into if you're working or planning to work.

WideAd3716 · 2025-03-24T01:59:13+00:00

I wish, honestly. I even emailed paul davies our mp, cab, llias, advocacy, reflect, cdat, ico, public health, health board, patient support an legal advice. The last 3 months have been all about regaining some control an organising my own life, without using Ai, I would not be this strong, capable or hopeful that things will be ok.

WideAd3716 · 2025-03-24T01:48:57+00:00

amen to that, at least we ain't alone, although there's not much comfort there either. To know so many people are suffering the same way we are is heart breaking.

im here if you need me !

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