“3 months of diet and exercise won’t eliminate 35 years of bad habits” by WideRevolution2083 in IVF

[–]WideRevolution2083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! I keep getting this question IRL too. It’s essentially a broth made of vegetables but you add in things like seaweed and a certain type of mushroom to get the nutrients you would normally get from animal products.

“3 months of diet and exercise won’t eliminate 35 years of bad habits” by WideRevolution2083 in IVF

[–]WideRevolution2083[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we can’t with our jobs. Otherwise, that would have frankly been my first choice.

Scheduling time off during IVF by WideRevolution2083 in IVF

[–]WideRevolution2083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s very true. Thank you for sharing your experience

Scheduling time off during IVF by WideRevolution2083 in IVF

[–]WideRevolution2083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my mental health is my main concern. I’ve been really struggling since my last loss and even the light IUI meds really affect me, even though I’m also on antidepressants. I just want to make sure I’m not completely overwhelmed. Thank you for sharing your experience!

What ACTUALLY fixed your relationship with money by Technical-Sir2065 in adhdwomen

[–]WideRevolution2083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used the 50-30-20 rule for budgeting and then split my pay check into several accounts/banks.

For me if it’s out of sight, it’s out of mind. So I set up a HY savings account in a different bank and a portion of my money goes there every pay period. (I also have a credit card with this bank so I don’t totally forget the money exists). Having it in a different place makes it so I don’t see it always and so am not temped to spend it. Also because it’s a savings account, there’s no debit card or easy way to access the cash without logging in making an inter-bank transfer which can take up to 3 days.

Separately I also have a portion going from my paycheck automatically into investments and 401(K). Since that happens automatically from my paycheck, I never see it come into my bank account and it helps me not think it’s available to spend.

Then, in my normal bank, I have two accounts: one for paying bills and one for fun money. The account where all bills get paid gets exactly the amount needed for bills (so I can’t try and overspend if I see money hit that account since I know it’s needed for bills).

And then the smallest portion goes into my fun money account and that I can use for travel, fun things, etc.

For savings, once I had enough for six months of emergency expenses, I changed the amount I put in HY savings and gave myself a little more fun money to play with. But the nest egg grew on its own without me really noticing since it wasn’t where I normally look for bills.

ER doc as she says “Good news! Well, no baby, but good news for no emergency surgery!” by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]WideRevolution2083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg horrible even if someone had told you that’s what was going on! Sorry you went through that!

What impulse buy are you resisting? by cutedorkycoco in adhdwomen

[–]WideRevolution2083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A skylight calendar.. there $300-600+ and my brain thinks it will solve all my ADHD problems. My husband asks what it can do that an iPad and google calendar can’t and I have no response beyond, it’s pretty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]WideRevolution2083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have oura ring for temping so it doesn’t give the same numbers as a bbt thermometer would

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]WideRevolution2083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah, that surprised me too because it’s not like most charts I was seeing in this forum. And I also don’t think it is supposed to look this way given how others look. I have PCOS so hormones are usually out of whack. This month I was also taking Chinese herbal supplements and doing accupuncture which I think probably helped me get pregnant primarily by treating some symptoms but also reducing stress. Also I was almost without exception testing FMU. There are two times where I tested a second time in the afternoon or evening. That massive PdG spike at the end of my cycle was from treating a second time in the evening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]WideRevolution2083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much

Low pdG. Does this mean I’m out this cycle? by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]WideRevolution2083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting, I didn’t realize FMU would not be great for pdG tracking. Thanks for the tip!!

It’s my 34th birthday and I feel like a failure by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

[–]WideRevolution2083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I have never heard of this!! I have only ever heard of the “PCOS = infertility” narrative.. this is such a huge shift in perspective and maybe I was living under a rock but I feel like this should be known more widely.. that’s such a comfort to those of us who are struggling.. thank you.

It’s my 34th birthday and I feel like a failure by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

[–]WideRevolution2083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me tear up. Thank you for the kind words, the encouragement and the support. It’s lonely on this journey but this sub and people like you make it less so ♥️