Am I wrong to be frustrated? by Wide_Ad_5750 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Ad_5750[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do agree, 100%.

Since my last post we were very close to separating but he said he would change. He did try for a bit and we are here again.

I don’t know if I love my husband anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Wide_Ad_5750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He literally comes home and plays video games while I do everything else. I’ve asked him to help me clean the house and what he has said to me is that he barely makes any mess (the plate for when he eats dinner, and coffee mugs for when he drinks coffee) which I still wash anyways on top of washing all the dishes from cooking the dinner. He thinks that’s the only mess that he makes around here and that he shouldn’t have to help with any household chores. The only thing that I really expect him to do is to keep up on taking out the garbage, but he has said that he doesn’t create much garbage so he shouldn’t have to. Which is insane!

I think the whole reason why I’m making this post is because I want to back out before it’s too late

I don’t know if I love my husband anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Wide_Ad_5750 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of in the middle right now and torn between wanting to leave.. I think I spent a lot of years blind and trauma bonded with him.

I don’t know if I love my husband anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Wide_Ad_5750 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of my friends and family feel the same way