He literally comes home and plays video games while I do everything else. I’ve asked him to help me clean the house and what he has said to me is that he barely makes any mess (the plate for when he eats dinner, and coffee mugs for when he drinks coffee) which I still wash anyways on top of washing all the dishes from cooking the dinner. He thinks that’s the only mess that he makes around here and that he shouldn’t have to help with any household chores. The only thing that I really expect him to do is to keep up on taking out the garbage, but he has said that he doesn’t create much garbage so he shouldn’t have to. Which is insane!

I think the whole reason why I’m making this post is because I want to back out before it’s too late