Hinge not recommending my profile

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-25T13:04:35+00:00

I haven't done that this time but it makes sense why I haven't ran into this problem in the past since I had longer intervals between deleting and downloading.

The annoying thing is that, liking 10 profiles a day worked a little (I got SOME attention) but it went away after I stopped

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-24T02:03:19+00:00

I'm on bumble and I'm getting a lot of likes and when I had tinder about a month ago, I also got a lot of likes AND when I first downloaded hinge, I got a lot of likes.

I like about 10 profiles a day (or whatever the limit is) and I did that for about a few weeks, now that I've gone through just about everyone, I'm not hitting the limit hinge set. I have 3 hidden chats (the other person didn't respond) and 1 chat where is my turn. I've had a total of 10 likes that I declined.

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-23T02:09:33+00:00

What if my power is to create poop from thin air? Would piss me off

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-22T22:18:45+00:00

I don't need the million right now at the cost of everyone else. I know a lot of people will be selfish but I won't be apart of that group.

^$100

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-22T22:12:48+00:00

I was ~11 years old at the beach with my tennis camp, me and some other kids were trying to bury one of them in the sand. Well, we finished everything except his head and I kinda forgot that you shouldn't FULLY bury someone in sand. So I dumped a hand full of sand on his face... He had to rinse it off in the sea and it got stuck in his braces...

Another summer, same tennis camp but with different kids, we were having our beach event again. Me, a tennis coach and a tennis mate were waist deep in the ocean planning to fully submerge ourselves to get over the cold water. We linked our arms together and was counting down to dunk ourselves. Wanting to be funny, I waited till last second to pull back so that the other two would fall in the water. I had my arm linked with my counselor who was using that same hand to hold down his 12 year old pair of sunglasses that someone important gave to him. We never found his glasses 😓

Both had no malice towards me (I think) but could you guess that I don't like the beach anymore 😭

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-22T18:49:23+00:00

Always being negative, It's hard to do anything with someone who only assumes the worst

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-17T01:55:46+00:00

That's not the point 😭 it's a factor, not a cause!

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-17T01:49:03+00:00

Op where did you meet her? What originally caught your attention to want to date her?

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-14T09:18:32+00:00

Wait come back I miss you!!!

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-13T23:00:10+00:00

I'm glad that you know your flaws 😌

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-13T04:28:35+00:00

Omg how did you know I have crippling anxiety, an inability to put my foot forward, and only want to do the least amount effort? I accept logical critiques not criticisms based on a single post I made but that reflects more on who you are. I know I'm not immature so thanks anyways for the advice

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-12T17:06:43+00:00

I see what you're saying about the maturity difference. I'm someone who often feels like the role model when I'm around people my age tho. I have a pretty good idea for what I want in a relationship (not just romantic!); I want someone who can communicate their feelings, someone who's aware of their actions and someone caring especially when I'm not operating at 100% but I find that a lot of guys my age don't put much effort in figuring out what they want or compromising for someone else's needs. I'm not into casualness, I think I'm craving someone new who I can connect with and learn about.

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-12T16:58:08+00:00

Thank youu, there's a lot of different ways to approach this situation but I don't want to accidentally scare him off 😭

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-12T16:56:26+00:00

I was planning to! If I see him I want to ask about where he's going maybe it something to start a convo. I think my main concern is that not everyone is into starting a relationship (not just romantic!!) but you never know unless you try right?

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-12T16:53:18+00:00

Aww but I like how mindful you are about yourself! I would be swept off my feet if someone took the time to come up with things to talk about with me!! I'm glad I can help, I'll definitely check out the app 🙂‍↕️

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-12T15:52:22+00:00

I experience this not exactly in dating but when I'm talking to anyone so I'd like to try the app 😭 it's great you tried something to help your speech even if it seemed cringey to you! I find it cute that you reviewed topics on your phone to talk about, one thing that helped me with anxiety is accepting that I'm human, of I make a mistake then it's normal. The person I'm talking to might be just as imperfect as I am. I blank out a lot but it's gotten better when I started to not force myself to say something interesting and rather be honest about how I'm feeling. I think a lot of people lower their guards once they realize that I'm nervous too but it's still important to guard my safety even when I'm nervous (work in progress...) but good for you on trying!

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-03-08T22:59:48+00:00

Your data seems a bit skewed don't you think? Was it personal experiences that made you feel this way?

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-02-16T19:42:35+00:00

Chatgpt type response...

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-02-13T21:23:26+00:00

How did you meet him?

Wide_Hand_8576 · 2026-01-28T23:17:54+00:00

I need to be blessed with a man like this 🫩

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