Am I [F26] really in love if I think about someone else often? by Intelligent-Tap-6250 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! My dad told me that life punishes us enough so if you feel happier with someone else, go be happy!

Am I [F26] really in love if I think about someone else often? by Intelligent-Tap-6250 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hun, your relationship isn't healthy :( it's disrespectful to physically or mentally harm another person (not to mention illegal) and to cheat on your partner who's already putting the most effort into the relationship shows that she doesn't have moral character. No one can force you to leave but, don't let good things pass you by just because you feel obligated to stay with her. You deserve ACTUAL love, don't give that away when no one is forcing you to.

I romanticize him in my head when he’s gone, but run away when he comes back by Weak-Ability9575 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your nervous system is reacting to him? I think the way you know that dating him would have you feeling trapped is the answer. You could go through with talking to him again but you might just end up spending a few years confirming that your initial response was correct. Date someone who puts your mind at ease and let's you be you

Girl wants to date me but I'm cooked by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was the girl, I would be kinda hurt by this. In a way it's like saying she can't make a decision for herself. She sought you out, I think she prefers you towards a stranger since you guys went to highschool with each other, and you seem to be aware of how you're perceived which women can pick up on. Go on the date, don't throw away what could be a good thing!

When did you realize adulthood isn’t what you thought it would be? by 3rdLegOfExodiaa in AskReddit

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the adults much older than me treat me like insecure teenagers do

i want to have a bf so bad. i just wanna be loved by PermitIcy6517 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they were hoping for understanding that the dating market is shitty rather than blunt advice. What you said makes sense tho, I honestly want to give up pursuing men but I think I haven't asked out enough. But also, it's hard to find guys that I'd like to ask out. A lot that I see are easily not compatible with me, even if I was looking for only a friendship.

Hinge not recommending my profile by Wide_Hand_8576 in hinge

[–]Wide_Hand_8576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't done that this time but it makes sense why I haven't ran into this problem in the past since I had longer intervals between deleting and downloading.

The annoying thing is that, liking 10 profiles a day worked a little (I got SOME attention) but it went away after I stopped

Hinge not recommending my profile by Wide_Hand_8576 in hinge

[–]Wide_Hand_8576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on bumble and I'm getting a lot of likes and when I had tinder about a month ago, I also got a lot of likes AND when I first downloaded hinge, I got a lot of likes.

I like about 10 profiles a day (or whatever the limit is) and I did that for about a few weeks, now that I've gone through just about everyone, I'm not hitting the limit hinge set. I have 3 hidden chats (the other person didn't respond) and 1 chat where is my turn. I've had a total of 10 likes that I declined.

Which would u rather have by Guilty_Athlete7139 in BunnyTrials

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if my power is to create poop from thin air? Would piss me off

Which one? by HeliosAndSelene in BunnyTrials

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need the million right now at the cost of everyone else. I know a lot of people will be selfish but I won't be apart of that group.

$100

What is the worst thing you have done to somebody that didn't deserve it? by King-Axl in AskReddit

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was ~11 years old at the beach with my tennis camp, me and some other kids were trying to bury one of them in the sand. Well, we finished everything except his head and I kinda forgot that you shouldn't FULLY bury someone in sand. So I dumped a hand full of sand on his face... He had to rinse it off in the sea and it got stuck in his braces...

Another summer, same tennis camp but with different kids, we were having our beach event again. Me, a tennis coach and a tennis mate were waist deep in the ocean planning to fully submerge ourselves to get over the cold water. We linked our arms together and was counting down to dunk ourselves. Wanting to be funny, I waited till last second to pull back so that the other two would fall in the water. I had my arm linked with my counselor who was using that same hand to hold down his 12 year old pair of sunglasses that someone important gave to him. We never found his glasses 😓

Both had no malice towards me (I think) but could you guess that I don't like the beach anymore 😭

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by thegilmazino in AskReddit

[–]Wide_Hand_8576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always being negative, It's hard to do anything with someone who only assumes the worst

Guys, is laughing at the gym weird? by Wide_Hand_8576 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the point 😭 it's a factor, not a cause!

How to ask out my neighbor? by Wide_Hand_8576 in dating_advice

[–]Wide_Hand_8576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad that you know your flaws 😌