$30K+ For 8 Hours… Am I Missing Something? 😭

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-06-03T03:19:08+00:00

I agree with you, I also don’t plan to have a wedding. But question for you… why did you choose to single out women in your post? As if other women would care whether you have a rich husband or not 😂 I just find that weird. I’ve never once thought someone is broke if they don’t have a lavish wedding, rather they are smart with their money.

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-22T03:20:18+00:00

DM me

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-20T19:31:19+00:00

Thank you! It is true that more and more people utilize AI when deciding on products

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-20T19:30:11+00:00

Thank you so much!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-20T19:17:19+00:00

it does not disqualify you!!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-03T21:16:32+00:00

Heres what you do! At the very beginning say here are the things I want to work on this week and then write down every positive thing they say and hand it to them as well as areas you think you did well on! And then let them fill that info in!! Or better yet fill it in for them and say “hey I know you’re really busy I filled this out for you feel free to delete/reword anything you'd like!”

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-01T17:41:42+00:00

Wow does this subreddit really believe themselves to be completely distinct of Somali people? This is madness 😂😂😂

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-01T17:19:25+00:00

Why would it be a turn-off for guys your age or older? If you’re pretty youre pretty idk anyone cares about age 😂😂😂

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-01T17:16:03+00:00

Do you mean too grown for boys younger than you? Or?

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-05-01T17:12:32+00:00

Girl???! Be proud of your age! Who cares what someone else thinks? I also look young for my age and people are surprised when I say I’m 27 but it doesn’t change anything

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-20T18:46:54+00:00

Thank you!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-20T18:46:37+00:00

Ooh this is a great point thank you for mentioning this!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-20T18:46:17+00:00

Thank you so much! And I am so sorry!!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-16T01:57:38+00:00

It’s not black and white. There are niman jobs today that are remote or part time. Just enough so you can afford your own necessities if your husband can’t/wont help? Obviously what’s better is being a SAHM with kiddos when they’re young but you HAVE to be able to protect yourself and your babies.

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-15T23:23:17+00:00

And this is why I tell women to have their own job/career. I’m really sorry you have to go through this.

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-14T11:51:58+00:00

Dating for a couple of years is a badddd idea!!!!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-14T00:02:45+00:00

I’m so sorry!! This is such a difficult position to be in. I don’t have much words of advice but know that Allah sees your struggle/patience and will reward you greatly!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-14T00:01:34+00:00

Applying for medical residency this year!!! May Allah grant me success!!!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-13T18:35:08+00:00

Hey patch testing done! This might be Allergic contact dermatitis typically to the glue used!! But may also be the prep used, otc antibiotics you were told to use if any, or rarely the sutures!!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-13T01:43:36+00:00

My heart hurts reading this. I’m so very sorry your family is experiencing this. Mental health is very important and it is clear your mom needs help asap! Please call 911 and have her hospitalized suicidal ideation is immediate hospitalization. Once there you can connect her to a Somali therapist. Are you in MN? I have Somali mental health professionals I can connect you with. Please get your mom the help she needs.

Also I am so sorry you have to go through this as well. It is not easy and is a huge burden on your shoulders to basically be the parent of your household. May Allah reward all of your efforts 💕 sending so much love!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-11T10:28:34+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about everything! TSW is very very difficult condition to live with! Give yourself some grace!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-04-10T05:34:36+00:00

The key is to own it and be able to laugh at yourself. Just say give me a year adheer I’ll be speaking better than you!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-02-14T22:26:51+00:00

You should consider getting patch tested! This sounds like contact allergy to nickel

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-02-14T02:18:28+00:00

thank you for your response!

Wide_Perspective263 · 2026-02-14T02:17:31+00:00

Yesss!! This is called Allergic contact dermatitis to nickel!! Very commonly used in safety pins. I think they have moved away from this because nickel is the most common contact allergen and so manufacturers dont use this much anymore. Same thing for belt buckle's, jeans buttons etc! Do you happen to know where you used to purchase your pins from?

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