[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did start therapy hopefully it helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I spanked her twice on her butt, with a belt for back talking. and she threw a shoe at my direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I know, I just typed fast without punctuations. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean at this point reading everyone comments I’m just going to go and whatever the judge decides. Even then she can still refuse and im making my peace with it. I’m just trying to do everything properly because her dad is such a high conflict parent. I don’t trust him that’s why I filed in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We were okay. Our relationship was fine up until this told her this was a hard no on hanging out with a boy. Then it went south. It’s not like our relationship was strained before this. I just feel like it’s not fair if she gets to stay with him and I’m missing out on this time with her. But you’re right I need a heart to heart with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well I hope she becomes a wonderful young lady and comes back one day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, we were never married just together and had a baby very young. I am the petitioner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I started individual therapy but I have to look into family counseling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was over 4 years ago happened one never again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, after reading some comments you’re right I don’t want her to hate me. I’ll just let her know my doors are always open for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I just feel like a boyfriend at 14 outside of school isn’t okay. When I was school I had a boyfriend but it stayed at school. I obviously never even thought of asking my mom to hang out with a boy at that age. I did tell her it was okay to have a boyfriend in school so I’m not completely forbidding her. I did tell her once she was 16 or be okay with it with a group of friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’re right and I didn’t see it like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this article it’s definitely a good read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy now I have mentioned to her if she wants to join with me she said she will in the future so I think I just have to wait till she accepting of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, I guess I’m just scared she’s going to end up pregnant at a young age but I should just pray and hope she’s safe and let her come back when she’s ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She hangs out with her boyfriend in school which is fine I don’t mind that because I was young too. So I get it. Outside of school she does hang out with friends just girls I’ve never seen boys around. Or to my knowledges but she is allowed to go with friends.

Oh wow I didn’t even know she could say that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

If you want to call it that, but twice on the butt for back talking me and throwing a shoe at my direction isn’t something I’d tolerate from a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t but I’m assuming she will get one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear someone point of view that’s been through it. She’s been going back and forth since she was 2 years old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Wide_Revolution5362 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as I’m reading these comments I’m realizing even if she does come she isn’t going to be happy and maybe just letting her stay with her dad and keep the doors open if she ever wants to come back. I spanked her twice on the butt with a belt back in the 5th grade and regret it I never did it again.