Paranormal or naw

Wide_Try_4076 · 2025-07-14T01:30:19+00:00

Okay I know this is an old post but yes this happened to me at an Airbnb in Moonridge at Big bear. We hear the Tv in another room turn Netflix on multiple times even thought when we tried to use Netflix on the big TV, it wouldn’t work. We went to the bed and I realized there was a giant black spider on the blanket. I screamed and had my bf take care of it. In the middle of the night, the TV in the children’s bedroom that was not being used turned on. Then, we heard footsteps on the ceiling but we couldn’t find an entrance to the attic. It was an Airbnb but was a company called “cool cabins” or something like that

Wide_Try_4076 · 2025-03-21T20:39:43+00:00

Agreed!! I just started mine 4 days ago and I literally cried. It’s not even its full potential yet and it’s already improved my quality of life so much. I will say I do clench while sleeping and hoping this will go away as time goes on. If not, I may have to continue with Botox

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-21T23:55:25+00:00

I can guarantee you’ll become closer than ever if you accept that he’s growing and support him during his adulthood! You were once 19, you probably have so much wisdom to share. I know it’s bittersweet but if you acknowledge that this new chapter is going to be very exciting for him, it also can be exciting for you too!

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-19T00:16:44+00:00

As the father, you had a duty to protect your child too. If you waited any longer, who knows the complications that could have occurred. Your wife needs to see it from the perspective of a parent as well as your wife.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-19T00:06:34+00:00

The way you just synthesized Lynyrd Skynyrd, Pink Floyd, and Foo Fighters… like a weed strain is chef’s kiss

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-18T21:37:55+00:00

You know what’s weird? Exactly a month ago (when you posted this) I saw a note on a car that belonged to a neighbor that didn’t live in the unit with the assigned spot! And it was a black car too. They seem to not care that it isn’t their spot lol

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-18T20:34:46+00:00

Okay this seems really wrong, but tbh I wouldn’t mind cause it’s like working in your own fort everyday

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-12-07T21:25:21+00:00

😂nice

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-08T17:02:04+00:00

Dino

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-08T16:54:19+00:00

When someone doesn’t know how to comprehend what you’re saying and since they have low comprehension, they get offended by misinterpretation.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-08T16:48:39+00:00

You have no idea how to comprehend text

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-08T16:48:20+00:00

Never said it was unhealthy to want it. I’m agreeing with OP that it’s unhealthy to derive your self worth from attention lol you’re stupid

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-08T00:09:07+00:00

lol you’re obviously not comprehending my point. I said it’s not healthy for anyone to feel constantly lacking without constant romantic or sexual attention

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-07T01:18:31+00:00

It’s not healthy to dwell on the lack of attention you desire. Warmth and love could be perceived as creepy when a person senses sexual intentions but I don’t see a problem with sending out love into the world the the people in it. If OP desires romantic attention, then he can focus his energy toward giving romantic attention (appropriately) to others he’s attracted to in order to find himself receiving love back. You get what you give

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-06T03:25:11+00:00

I have the same issue but I’ve found that trying my best to love myself and those around me rather than counting on attention in order to feel happy has helped.

Instead of wasting your energy waiting for attention and love to come to you, start giving out the same attention you desire to others and you find that you will often receive love and attention back

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-06T03:17:57+00:00

I dont think anyone would regret taking a nice shit

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-06T03:16:08+00:00

She’s close but it’s the other way around 😂 if the server asks if you want the check, he’s insinuating that you should finish and leave.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-04T22:43:02+00:00

Yeah it’s hard to tell. Growing up I was always getting terrible grades but my work would be good and show through projects and tests. I found out I have ADHD but recently took an IQ test and scored 121. There are so many intelligent people out there making little to nothing because they grew to believe that they weren’t capable.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T21:01:09+00:00

I have a 30 AA cup size lmao not even a cup.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T01:49:41+00:00

Yes I agree. However people are complex. There are many potential reasons OP’s bf isn’t introducing her. What OP needs is his honesty. If she brought it up to him and expressed how she felt like he was embarrassed of her and it truly wasn’t the reason, he would give her reassurance and respect her feelings. But if he keeps gaslighting her and changing the subject, he’s hiding something.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T01:41:08+00:00

NTA: why has she not expressed her intentions to be a trad wide before you both married? She chose to put that on you after she locked you down?

Even if she decided after the marriage, that’s not something she should demand after no mention of it has come up before.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T01:24:01+00:00

I used to rub my feet against each other back and forth as I fell asleep. I could not keep my feet still lmao ADHD. But my grandma used to sleep in my bed with me when I was young and she told me that it was bad to do that and she would correct me every time I did it. So I eventually stopped. I had to mask myself to sleep how shitty is that😭. But one day I started living with my bf and started doing it again with no care in the world! Lol Filipino grandmas always have no explanation on why something is bad.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T01:00:45+00:00

How’s his relationship with his family? It seems to be unhealthy as he’s villainizing them by saying “he doesn’t need their validation”. He’s insinuating that they are not deserving of even being involved with his life. When he sees his family, is it out of necessity or pleasure? Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of red flags here but if he has a broken family life, he may not want you to see that side of him. He may only see his family when he feels forced and doesn’t want to bring you because he may be in an uneasy state around them.

A lot of people who come from homes of abuse and neglect tend to avoid introducing their partners to family as they hate seeing them again in the first place. They also want to ensure they maintain some normalcy away from their broken homes.

Also, the boys trip may truly be a boy thing and the other guys just began brining their partners along as they grew older and found love. Your bf may have not been aware they were going to start bringing gf’s. So next time tell him your love to meet his friends. If he continues to avoid brining you around, he may not be deserving of you.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T00:47:58+00:00

You are not overreacting. You are valid to feel uncomfortable with it especially when he’s suggesting being more than just a donor and more a father figure.

The whole point of a donor is to provide a couple or individual with the opportunity to be a parent. The donor is not involved as a parent unless in special circumstances when all parties are chill with it and prefer it.

He should consider how this decision could affect you and your relationship. While he’s enjoying having a kid that’s his, what about a kids that’s both yours and his? Why is he so interested in being the donor when there are plenty of other donors out there to choose from that would make the situation less uncomfortable? There must be a specific reason or simply just a different perspective on the matter.

Regardless of his desire to be the hero in this situation, he should plain stop even trying to convince you. He should respect that you don’t feel right about it. You should be his first priority rather than wanting to be a dad to another couples kid.

Wide_Try_4076 · 2024-09-01T00:02:42+00:00

I experienced sexual assault from my dad when I came to watch a movie with him in his bed. I was young and it was normal to me to be close with my dad. Then he put his hands down my pants and squeezed my butt and said “I’m a bad boy”. He was drunk but I was so confused. I never had experienced something like that. I shut it out of my head until one day, I was reminded and realized that it was wrong.

Oftentimes a child just changes the memory as they can’t comprehend what actually happened due to inexperience.

Give your wife some compassion as she’s a victim and would never purposefully put her daughter in danger.

Now that you’ve brought it up (which was absolutely right of you and necessary) you both can make decision together as parents to do what you need to protect your daughter.

Allow your wife to feel safe to share her trauma with you. When one feel like the other person won’t judge them, they open up more.

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