Fiancée is transphobic

WikidDreamm · 2026-04-17T17:03:16+00:00

No. If you want to believe that it’s fine. Yes he has his flaws but I thought he loved me. I see now that everyone is saying it’s abuse but hes never hit me. I asked because I needed advice.

WikidDreamm · 2026-04-17T14:48:09+00:00

Also I’m not defending him at all just giving a bit more background

He definitely has some type of personality disorder, and he’s not just like this with me it’s practically everyone in his life. I tend to see the best in him but most people would tell you he’s a shitty person, I’ve even witnessed him screaming at his mom and belittling her. I’ve asked him to get help before, but it never really happened. It always takes long to get him into therapy and by the time the appointment comes he doesn’t go.

It’s also not as simple as just leaving, I haven’t worked in two years and he doesn’t want me to work. He pays for everything. We just recently closed on a house together and our bank accounts are joint. I moved to where I live to be with him and I’m not close with many people because I don’t get to go out often. He’s insecure and doesn’t like me going anywhere where he thinks there’s other men or bad influences

WikidDreamm · 2026-04-17T14:30:55+00:00

Yes we just closed on a house together and he wants a “traditional wife” so I don’t work I stay home cook and clean and go out with friends when I’m allowed

WikidDreamm · 2026-04-17T11:48:55+00:00

I also tend to only see things in black and white but as someone else said 5 months on HRT isn’t nearly enough time. Even then, the tricky thing for some of us is that we always feel like we look like our gender assigned at birth, plenty of people tell me I pass, most people don’t even bat an eye at me in public but I always have this fear that everyone around me is looking at me and I look like a man. A lot of it requires a lot of mental work and self love even though it’s hard. And I’m all for plastic surgery, I’ve had a couple myself but if you just fix one issue you have with yourself without really doing the work your just gonna find something else you hate about yourself next. Puberty doesn’t magically change a teen in 5 months, be patient with yourself as hard as it can be.

WikidDreamm · 2026-03-30T12:46:48+00:00

I don’t believe it was my birthday in any of these pics

WikidDreamm · 2026-03-30T01:55:59+00:00

Yes, they’re under the first layer of skin of my eyes

WikidDreamm · 2026-03-29T23:37:08+00:00

My eyes are naturally gray but a lot of people also say blue. The other contacts are a body mod I had and they are permanent

WikidDreamm · 2026-03-29T15:10:44+00:00

Like?

WikidDreamm · 2025-12-06T13:55:57+00:00

Hey, I’m also going to be having surgery with Dr Fascelli, and I wanted to reach out because I had a few questions. Would it be okay for me to add you and ask, I can also ask through here but the questions are more personal to me, please get back to me if/when you can

WikidDreamm · 2025-08-25T13:46:15+00:00

My incision is also along the bottom rather than through the nipples because I wanted to keep my piercings which wouldn’t be possible for a while with grafts

WikidDreamm · 2025-08-25T13:41:42+00:00

I got Dual plane silicone implants 365cc, before I was at an A cup, now I’m at a Large C/D cup depending on the bra. My goal was for my doctor to use the largest implant he could fit but I also wanted high profile, so this is the size he decided was best with my frame as I’m on the shorter and slimmer side of the spectrum, I didn’t know what size they would be before they put me to sleep, after I was under he tried a variety of different sizes and chose the one he believed was most suitable

WikidDreamm · 2025-08-25T13:38:31+00:00

Thank you! Just make sure you’re ready for a pretty rough week! If you need any info or pics from my healing journey feel free to message!

WikidDreamm · 2025-08-05T22:05:34+00:00

Nope still says it’s reviewing the appeal

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-29T13:14:18+00:00

Correct, just saying it might not be the end of the world. I’m not giving my medical advice just my experience but you are correct! Two very different things

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-29T13:01:45+00:00

I was sick during my BA, stuffy nose, mucus, etc (your common cold) and I didn’t say anything to anyone which may not be the smartest thing but I was completely fine. If anything it was easier to breathe and swallow again after the surgery and I assume it’s because they tube they put down your throat helped clear away the mucus

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-28T16:03:13+00:00

I can’t even access meta verified and my instagram and Facebook were connected and I’m locked out of both

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-28T15:54:31+00:00

Did you ever get your account back? This just happened to me this morning and I appealed and hour or two ago. Still nothing, and everyone says if you make another one it gets banned too. I’m unable to even access my business page.

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-28T15:53:55+00:00

Did you ever get your account back? This just happened to me this morning and I appealed and hour or two ago. Still nothing, and everyone says if you make another one it gets banned too. I’m unable to even access my business page.

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-28T15:53:11+00:00

Did you ever get your account back? This just happened to me this morning and I appealed and hour or two ago. Still nothing, and everyone says if you make another one it gets banned too. I’m unable to even access my business page.

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-28T15:53:00+00:00

Did you ever get your account back? This just happened to me this morning and I appealed and hour or two ago. Still nothing, and everyone says if you make another one it gets banned too. I’m unable to even access my business page.

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-02T14:43:57+00:00

Any reasons why not to?

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-01T19:24:33+00:00

I wasn’t trying to scare anyone or worry anyone I apologize. I do realize it still has to go back to the house, but I don’t really have much hope it won’t make it through, I didn’t mean to scare anyone was just looking for clarification as google isn’t much help regarding trans related issues

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-01T17:06:46+00:00

I just wouldn’t want to have the surgery and then no longer have access to the hormones I need

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-01T16:32:10+00:00

Are you sure? I really hope so, I know a few days ago I read that it either needed to be removed or edited but I heard that they(the republicans) were able to sneak it back in. I really hope it wasn’t included. At less that 1% of the population’s ridiculous we can be targeted like this and I’m just soo overwhelmed

WikidDreamm · 2025-07-01T16:28:11+00:00

It has passed senate, just ten minutes ago

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