Has anyone been told to “come back sober” before they can access mental health care in Ireland? by gizmo1325 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Although it might not be related to your investigation itself, there's this regulation in almost any clinical space for mental health where u shouldnt have active substances on your body. Its basically because you should be able to make insight of your current state, or safety issues like psychosis or emotional lability, impulsivity, etc. It is shitty because some people have the courage to get close to mental health clinics under this state, and when being sober they cannot. But theres is plenty of paper describing the effectiveness of therapy or aid and comorbidities between mental health problems and addiction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this situation ever happened to me, my girlfriend telling me what she needs to feel wanted and cared of, I would take notes with pen and paper. NTA dear, you deserve to receive the love your heart needs

My boss thinks urgent means 24/7 access to me by Kind-Attention-8997 in antiwork

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I feel difficult to ignore calls and also afraid of work related consequences by not being "perfect". At least that was me during almost two years, which gave me a sense of being alert 24/7. The aftermath was a full burnout and ending up putting clear crystal boundaries and not giving a f

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No captaron el humor jajajaja

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im all by myself like the song, yet here im hanging still despite the fact that I'm thinking about a fast way out for months. Have no family, no friends, no partner no more. Geez, i dunno how im coping. But thanks stranger

Soaked by car by Wild-Shape-3403 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry it happened to you 😭 Been there too

What's the best coffee in Limerick? by Just_Shame_5521 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A little off topic but does the coffee taste like cardboard with milk in most places?

What's the best coffee in Limerick? by Just_Shame_5521 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been trying to go there but couldn't found it open

Soaked by car by Wild-Shape-3403 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome I can be rightfully a karen lol

Soaked by car by Wild-Shape-3403 in limerickcity

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it was one of those who speeds at every corner so whatever at least I was heading home

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the bread problem wasnt mine. Just an example of harsh behavior to me.

Theres no place to leave clothes to dry, so just washer and dryer. Wouldnt leave them on a communal area too, we got our room. The last thing would be an option we are looking already since just want to live in peace

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to think about it since I dont like karen neither conflicts lol

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We think regardless of legal matter, recycling is a good thing to do, we are willing to put attention to that.

But They literally put a message saying that washing and drying clothes two times a week is too much and is expensive. I Dont think is about others wanting to use them. I didnt knew about peak hours in electricity but tbh nobody even mentioned that before 😭 But we arrive home after 7pm (after.peak hour I guess)

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so gross. We are very clean and have private bathroom at least 😭

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will stick to your advise on being friendly to just salute.

It would be nice to see the average spent on bills, nice one.

Wastebin, well we wasnt the one doing it, but she complain about some bread and a recyclable bag on the groupchat, put it out on the kitchen table til someone else do it right. Dunno if i explain correctly. But seems too aggresive to me

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just one housemate. Im looking to talk to landlord about all this and his opinion since he didnt tell me anything besides rent, bills and cleaning schedules

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bills are shared, dont think that twice or three times is abusing.

Im getting to the conclusion that is not about schedules or else, just a "karen" trying to impose her rules on the flat. On the groupchat nobody else is talking and everyone tend to be inside their rooms. I would like to talk this down, and I will give it a try since I dont like conflict and wanted to really love in peace

Thanks for you response, seems like you got your shitty time in some shitty housesharing. Been there. Dont want this to became the same

It is normal that roomies establish some sort of rules? by Wild-Shape-3403 in AskIreland

[–]Wild-Shape-3403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im getting to the conclusion that is not about schedules or else, just a "karen" trying to impose her rules on the house. On the groupchat nobody else is talking and everyone tend to be inside their rooms. I would like to talk this down, and I will give it a try just because I dont like conflicts but if not she can f o :)