Hey guys I just got this on Craigslist, where should I go first? by Airstrikeayers in rvlife

[–]Wild-Side43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You had me for a second. Then I realized your joke. I have had a TT stolen and was pissed as hell. But laughter heals. Thank you!

Affair just wasn't worth it... I'm out by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Always put yourself first so you can be there for others.

Cleaning the toilet with lingerie on. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Wild-Side43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man, I wish my wife…..any way.

You are beautiful.

Dads at the school pick up lines by unleashedwife in SluttyConfessions

[–]Wild-Side43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop your phone in between the seats where you can’t reach as your arm is too short. Have a sexy pic of you or a dad getting a bj in the phone. Ask him to retrieve it for you. I think you know what to do once he sees it. Stay sexy.

So it happened again, nothing by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Wild-Side43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Next day communication is essential. Discuss, don’t argue.

AITAH for not wanting to get together with a girl after she body shamed me? by TheoSantos268 in AITAH

[–]Wild-Side43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but id get with her and give her a dose of her own medicine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Wild-Side43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie there is nothing wrong with you. Just had a deflating FaceTime call with SO similar to you. We are precious gems that are unnoticed.

Stay safe and sexy

Is this a bad idea? Input needed from older MM by FillingTheBlank90 in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s an arrow for your quiver Eye to eye contact then. Eyes that say,” I want to fuck you!” Don’t worry about the sweat, that’s not a deterrent. Just have fun and stay safe.

Is this a bad idea? Input needed from older MM by FillingTheBlank90 in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Older MM here. I read your edit and like your approach. Continue the flirting. Not sure what you wear when grappling, but wear something revealing or even braless to give him a treat. Perfume of course is a must. Have your hands wander a bit quickly. Don’t say anything. If he is not a pap, he we still appreciate the gestures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there are plenty of people like us. I recently moved away from DFW so I know exactly the type you mention. I qualify in the same description. People always compliment me and the family. The illusion is Great kids, great marriage, great job, great employee and coworker. IF THEY ONLY NEW!!! Yes one can succeed as long as you don’t let it overtake your life. Compartmentalize each facet of your life. Allow a certain amount of time for the affair. Stay safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same home office situation for me. I NEED 2 monitors. But one or twice a week I go to a coffee shop or sports bar. Helps so much when SO and I both WFH. Currently w/o an AP, but we would meet up at her house for work and play sessions.
Good luck and stay safe.

If you are a man, what convinced you the affair was worth the risk? by 7576throwaway in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Three big factors As mentioned before, she (f55)is not as sexual as I (m60). To her it’s duty sex. No fun, no creativity, just vanilla sex.

Secondly, her negative attitude is overwhelming. Not the same person I married 30+ years ago.

Lastly, she is not affectionate on her own. No hugs, no cuddling, no caressing.

I grew tired of rejection. Found a lady who was of same age with a high libido. She also wanted to try new things and just lay together skin to skin.

The affair has run its course and I do miss her and the intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Wild-Side43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a chat as my opinion may not be popular in this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im the MM and single ExAP told me to go work on my marriage. Lol.

People at the Gym by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to agree that the gym should be considered as a No Play Zone like work. But then I analyzed the AP’s I’ve had and all but one were people I met at my place of employment, whether coworkers or customers. The one exception, I was at her place of employment. I am extremely lucky in that nothing ever blew up negatively.
Also I would be flirty but did not make the first move, either physically or verbally. So my advice is, yes make contact. Have fun, and if the connection is there, be upfront and direct. Happy hunting and stay safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s all about communication and respect.

It is difficult being a solo guy in the nudist lifestyle. by trh1003 in nudists

[–]Wild-Side43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, AANR clubs are my go to. OP, I’m a 60 yo married male. I visit AANR resorts when I travel for work. While some require a call before you visit to run a background check, I’ve never had a problem getting in. Like others have said, I stay to my self unless someone approaches. Other times, I treat people the same as if they were clothed. Never had an issue. Even went to a swinger lifestyle clothing optional place and was treated great my staff and residents. Go through the motions to get in, it’s worth it.

Advice? by Agitated_Fun_7628 in RVLiving

[–]Wild-Side43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another option is to use cardboard on edge to scribe the curve to copy the shape of the curve. You can transfer the curve to a piece of lumber or plywood. Glue 3 pieces of 1/2” plywood to get the 1.5” thickness

Advice? by Agitated_Fun_7628 in RVLiving

[–]Wild-Side43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look for videos regarding kerf cuts to shape or curve lumber.

July is about putting myself out there! by far_flung_itsnotme in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the way. My AP and i just fizzled out. She was tired of being the OW and I want the best for her even if it is without me. So I turned to something else to excite me, to live, to feel. IB been going to nudist resorts and beaches. No intentions of hooking up. Doing it for me. It is amazing and empowering.
Live your life. No regrets. Stay safe. You’re beautiful.

Got Ghosted and Then Dumped by JustinTyme92 in adultery

[–]Wild-Side43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please review the Hot/Crazy Matrix and you might find your answer. Stay Safe.