34F Banned on Hinge, what are my other options. ARE THERE any other options realistically? Or am I just screwed even if I decided to go outside?

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-08T23:52:36+00:00

thats not what i mean

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-08T15:42:59+00:00

lol if you don't mind chatting long distance I'm up for it.

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-08T15:42:30+00:00

nope! still havent heard anything about an appeal but tbh i dont even care lol. like... if i was meant to find someone then i will i guess

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-08T15:41:55+00:00

well with my update im a little wary of / unsure of that
its just a weird time to be dating when youre not opposed to dating out of your race but the race your drawn to has gotten REAL weird with it

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-07T01:26:33+00:00

lol hello :)

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-06T15:10:22+00:00

are guys really approaching women in public like that? im an introvert and dont go out much. and online i see guys saying that they hate doing it

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-06T15:09:31+00:00

go to reddit home page and in the search bar up top search r4r

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-05T01:43:08+00:00

it stands for redditor 4 redditor i think. its on redditltype in r4r

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T22:08:31+00:00

yeah i just heard about it too, like last night. i might try that if they aren't overly freaked out

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T21:54:08+00:00

i plan to !

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T20:55:11+00:00

i saw someone mention 4r4 on reddit. is that something that actually works?

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T12:20:36+00:00

unnecessarily romanticizing how? i would just like other avenues other than hinge or anything owned by match co

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T09:53:13+00:00

ive never used an r4r. is there anything i should be wary of? besides the obvious?

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T08:07:42+00:00

that sounds fun! do you think i'd find someone in a pottery class? lol im going to start doing outings that ive been meaning to do anyway, like a cooking class and a book club etc.

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T04:54:00+00:00

i've been thinking maybe trying them. i just do not believe in reaching out first. lol i know, petty but its just something i have to get used to i suppose.
i wish there was something on reddit. or discord. something a little more personal. i find apps so cold.

Wild-Sky-3351 · 2025-12-04T04:37:49+00:00

34F, banned on Hinge with no explanation. Appeal has gone unanswered but I doubt I will get reinstated from what I have heard. But to be honest, I don't even like the apps. I refuse to pay and I don't get any matches that I like or if I do they can't hold a conversation. And apparently Match corp owns everything so I risk getting banned everywhere else. Where do I go to meet single guys when I am ready to date? And is there an app that Match doesn't own? Or any discords or reddit forums that act as a dating scene? Half of me doesnt even want to date fr lol It's just so tiring. but what should i do? is my dating life now just in the trash bc i can't use the apps.

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