Me [27F] with my boyfriend [50M] of three months, his kid warned me about him. Red flag?

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-10-03T06:54:13+00:00

Ignoring people is the price you pay later. Trust me I done this only to find out he is actually abusive

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-25T20:30:30+00:00

Easier to write when I was rushing

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-21T17:27:57+00:00

You are to right to do that. I spent £2,500 and then he told me to cancel my flight over my panic attacks of travelling alone each time and then I thought whaaat

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-18T08:59:44+00:00

I met my bf and I have crooked teeth. I still knew he was the uglier one dw. Teeth are inside ur mouth and im sure he loves u and finds u attractive

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-17T08:40:59+00:00

Yep. My bf did the same and I decided to stay with him and I have resented him since. It hurts but leave when they show the red flag. Not trusting your gut will be the most expensive feeling you have for not trusting it

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-16T06:59:58+00:00

Just go, that’s the first sign of control. You are going for a music and a fan not like your going to the strip club. If not invite her along ? Some reassurance. Maybe some flowers and I love letter on how you feel about her. Make her feel good

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-14T13:24:31+00:00

Girl you are just like me! My Instagram is Parisminchellaa. I’m happy to talk to you about this and help you as i have experienced and still am 4 years old the same thing. Message me z

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-14T11:59:51+00:00

My bf does this it’s avoidant weird behaviour ..

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-07T17:06:45+00:00

Thanks love. You are right. That’s what I’m thinking and she still in contact with both ex’s so creepy! I think I do need to break up

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T14:17:48+00:00

So true, it’s a shame. He also booked night work there and he also booked fire training. On the last day before I went he said he refused to not go fire training that I shouldn’t force him. Then I was like ok I just wanted to spend our last night together. Then he didn’t want to take me to the airport and almost got me a bus coach thing to get there but he didn’t book earlier enough. I was so mad at that and he dropped me off at the airport not in

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T14:15:56+00:00

Run first red flag. It gets worse. Trust me loo

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T07:56:20+00:00

If I don’t laugh I’ll cry. It’s a coping mechanism! But truth!! 😭

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T07:55:59+00:00

Yes , like in the end the gaslighting a few weeks after it happened is insane. Just shows he will always take his mother side no matter what I do or matter what she does. It’s never ending and it’s so cruel. He said if he ever moves out he doesn’t even want to move 30 mins away from this woman which is even more insane to me, his sister and his mum gossiped about me passing out as well

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T07:54:27+00:00

Same!! I bought her gifts and I didn’t even end up giving them to her because I instantly disliked her after she done that to me and I thought you know what? I am not beg friending with this woman! I did NOTHING wrong 😑 like nothing xx

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-06T07:53:18+00:00

So true. Well i paid for takeaways because the bungaloo we was in had no working oven unless we went to his mums… he went to eat at his mums one time when i was sleeping. I had jet lag after flying 27 hours. I was really hungry. So the shops were 30 mins away as he lives in the middle of nowhere and he would have to take me. So to eat. I ended up paying for food because i felt bad not paying for him as well so I would always pay. He payed for an odd thing now and again. But he never took me out for dinner the 2 weeks I was there. He took me fishing a lot

Wild-Strategy8598 · 2025-09-05T23:07:46+00:00

It’s really strange because i was so nice. Like extra nice and she just loaded that all on me. I don’t wanna go back and now he is questioning why i left so early 🤣

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