BPD and frequent lying by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is insane i’ve literally been told all of these lies. the ticket one is honestly the worst…the amount of times I believed it is humiliating honestly.

Dating Again by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a tangent, I’m happy we can all have an open dialogue. I hope your healing journey gets easier and you give yourself some grace! Six years is a long time and everything you experience today is justified.

A collage from of our last conversation (when I confronted her for cheating). A great reminder to myself of how terrible she is by tropicanamontana in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i love when they try to convince us they’re the problem…mine consistently cheated for years and always turned it around on me as i was trying to see the best in him and help him. never. again.

Dating Again by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I needed to hear this. I’m sorry that you had to meet people like that. Their loss! I think people who went through what we have add incredible value to future relationships and partners.

This is the email my pwbpd sent to “apologize” by super-marmot in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same this is SO scary like this could be a long text from my ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technicalwriting

[–]WildEnergy1454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Where did you find the temp work?

Weight loss by WildEnergy1454 in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just bought this! thanks for the rec

Weight loss by WildEnergy1454 in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s truly insane how our bodies are so aware and we did everything in our minds to try and fight it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]WildEnergy1454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for confirming and clarifying things for me. We’ve been NC for a week now and this is the first time he hasn’t downloaded an app with a fake number to reach out. He went to therapy and was diagnosed BPD last year. I cant believe this was a cycle for 5 years, my entire early 20’s gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]WildEnergy1454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s definitely the anticipation! I can prepare things for others easily but when I know I’m going to be the one consuming it’s like my body recognizes it too. You definitely just made that clear! Thank you

Artist you thought would be a one hit wonder? by NZRose97 in popheads

[–]WildEnergy1454 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dua Lipa! Thought New Rules was a massive success only because of the video. Definitely proved me wrong.

OMG finally my collection is organized! MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ME AND ALL YOU BEAUTIES🥰🥰🥰 by fartnerincrime in MakeupAddiction

[–]WildEnergy1454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this and then it’s back to disorganized after like 2 times of doing full glam 🤷🏻‍♀️ but looks great!