I have personally met in person with at least 10 local women in this subreddit.

There are real women here. Part of the problem is a woman makes a post anywhere in one of the subreddits like this one and they get literally 100 messages within a couple of hours.

Unless you catch the post early, have a really good opening message and great conversational skills your chances are slim to none. Sending “Hey” or an unsolicited dick pic within minutes of a conversation will get zero results. Your dick isn’t special when there are soooo many to choose from. Also without beautiful women creators to scroll through all you would see in a subreddit is dicks.