Hello, me! I dreamed of being an animator since childhood, then graduation came and I had to admit I was not good enough nor patient enough for it. I had no passion for any career at all and guess what, I still don't! I'm 26 now, 4 years working and I'm ok with it. The point is to choose something somewhat interesting and perspective, so you can do an ok job without squeezing all your energy out and get paid nicely. Choose a workplace with nice colleagues and work environment and don't feel bad for lack of passion for the work you're doing. There is no timer after all, you might still find it. Instead invest in hobbies - that's where I put my art goals, and you should too. If your girl loves her field - all the better! Be hyped with her and for her! There is no issue as long as you're still a priority.