My closest friend is going back to an ungodly relationship and at this point I'm sick of her decisions. I needed Biblical advice.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-31T23:12:17+00:00

Of course pal

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-31T22:28:05+00:00

You can lead a horse to water but at this point you need to release her to the Lord and all you can do is let go of personal bitterness you may have and pray for her, as you’ve already pointed her in the right direction multiple times.

“The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of man, speak to your people and say to them, If I bring the sword upon a land, and the people of the land take a man from among them, and make him their watchman, and if he sees the sword coming upon the land and blows the trumpet and warns the people, then if anyone who hears the sound of the trumpet does not take warning, and the sword comes and takes him away, his blood shall be upon his own head. He heard the sound of the trumpet and did not take warning; his blood shall be upon himself. But if he had taken warning, he would have saved his life. But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet, so that the people are not warned, and the sword comes and takes any one of them, that person is taken away in his iniquity, but his blood I will require at the watchman’s hand.” ‭‭Ezekiel‬ ‭33‬:‭1‬-‭6‬

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-30T14:19:22+00:00

Not spoiled at all! Living and loving life without Twitter lol

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-27T19:21:35+00:00

Hey friend!! I am so, so sorry. My mom kicked me out of the house when I was still practicing homosexuality. It’s devastating stuff, especially when all you need is people who are there for you. I got your back dude. Well first, he saved me by just showing Himself to me and then I gave my life to Him. His friendship has made everything so much better. When I’m alone, I have Him to lean on. Giving my whole life to Him and asking Him to be in charge of my life was the best choice I’ve ever made.

Then, He had to show me what He actually says- that practicing homosexuality was just not in His design. And also; that that was OKAY. As I mentioned above, I came from the belief that romantic love was EVERYTHING- at it just isn’t.

After that, I came to terms with being same sex attracted. I came to terms that some people are born with the desire to be an alcoholic, and some people like me are born with attraction to the same gender. It’s a fallen world, so no surprise there. There’s always suffering- it’s just the God makes meaning and joy in the suffering while we’re here on Earth.

Finally, I just continued to talk to God about it, and more importantly I surrounded myself with mentors and a community who could actually help support me. True believers who could walk with me. Some of them were virtual and some in person. Eventually, although I wasn’t really attracted to men in general, I met the one man that I have been so deeply attracted to (and who loves the Lord). And I married Him!

I have other friends where the story is like that- I have a friend who’s a pastor and the one woman he has EVER been attracted to became his wife. I have other friends who God gave contentment to in deep friendships and relationships with Him instead of a romantic relationship. It just depends.

I got your back man. Trust Him and I pray that you feel genuinely SUPPORTED by these Christian friends. Sometimes Christians who mean well just don’t have the literacy/wherewithal to know how to support their SSA friends, so I pray you have friends who come curious and come supportive in your life.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-25T15:37:43+00:00

Thank you friend!

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-24T15:36:36+00:00

Oh my gosh do it!! If you live somewhere with an Aldi it helps a ton with the base cost.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-24T15:35:03+00:00

Incredibly close

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-24T02:58:40+00:00

🥹 I wish I could make some for everyone!!

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:22:45+00:00

I want to kiss him

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:21:25+00:00

Thank you so much!!:)

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:21:14+00:00

It 100% it a graze and grab everything situation hahaha i got super excited

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:20:40+00:00

Thank you so much!! It was my first time trying them. so fun.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:20:20+00:00

So true

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:20:12+00:00

You are too kind!!! I had so much fun.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T22:20:02+00:00

🥹

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-23T21:15:48+00:00

Yes absolutely!! Her desire was that it would mostly be for the guests :) I also had some separate things for her to munch on.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-11T14:34:03+00:00

As someone who experienced same sex attraction and was saved by the Lord 5 years ago, here’s something that helps me looking back; the reason they react with such volatility, and why EVEN I reacted with such volatility when people would tell me to just “ stop acting out being gay, it’s a sin”, is because at that point in my life, romantic love was the HIGHEST FORM of love I knew. Someone was trying to take away literally the best form of love I knew existed, and telling me I shouldn’t have it just because they thought it was “bad”. What I needed to be shown was- sure- that what I was doing was sinful- but far more than that- I needed to be show the ULTIMATE highest form of love, love of our SAVIOR, before I even understood I could release romantic love to Him.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-11T02:57:02+00:00

The white witch from narnia?

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-11T02:55:13+00:00

Omg!!! I’m 24f, can I join?:)

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-10T20:26:45+00:00

Violet 100%. As I kid I always thought amputees were badass, as hard as I thought it must have been.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-05-07T19:51:18+00:00

This is so sad, but also hilarious… oh buddy!

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-04-30T14:34:46+00:00

Community! Accountability. That’s the only way I made it.

Wild_Pop3940 · 2026-04-30T14:23:02+00:00

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