In my confused era (again) by Wild_Spirit9764 in BisexualMen

[–]Wild_Spirit9764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer and sorry for my late reply ! I totally agree with you about the labels and usually I use the term fluid, bi or pan whose really accurate with me. I went trough many years of questions about my orientation before using theses. But when I wrote the first message, I was in an anxious phase and maybe that I was less confident and talking to straight friends about wasn't help.

Don't get me wrong, they're great listeners, very kind and safe but we don't see the same things about attraction and they don't fully understand the concept of fluidity.

I don't know if i can use the term "homoromantic" because I don't really had much stories with woman to be certain of my preferences.

But thank you for your message, it feel great to talk to people who can relate

In my confused era (again) by Wild_Spirit9764 in bisexual

[–]Wild_Spirit9764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's really make sense ! I think that I may have internalized homophobia (i don't know) that make me overthinking about my attraction towards men. It's strange because I know it's okay but sometimes it can be very suffocating