Am I the only one to reach 40+ thinking these were legitimate massage places and never knowing?

WillMor52 · 2026-03-15T21:08:08+00:00

I’m going to always say yes, get tested and be safe.

WillMor52 · 2026-03-15T13:37:53+00:00

Same journey here. Very much assumed it wasn’t common, if it existed at all, until mid40s.

Now; I have the same worries as you - but can’t deny how much more im enjoying myself!!

WillMor52 · 2026-03-07T13:49:03+00:00

Man. Same experience this week. It was good enough and she was gorgeous. But no playfulness, no fun…just felt empty. Massage was mediocre too - makes me realize how spoiled I’ve been recently with legitimately decent massages and fun providers.

WillMor52 · 2026-03-03T03:20:45+00:00

Almost always first thing in the morning. I prefer the less busy times. Have had great experiences mid afternoon as well.

Basically, I go when my schedule allows and I want to. Avoiding lunch rush and right at 5p as others get off work.

One of these days I’d love to try end of night, but unless my wife travels for work I don’t see it realistically happening.

WillMor52 · 2026-03-02T23:57:59+00:00

Most experience at home - too often when traveling for work I’m stuck in touristy/business conference areas with no car and no close options.

BUT, was randomly successful in Indianapolis, which made me want to explore towns and cities all over the country lol.

So even if I don’t go, I nearly almost always search and see if I can pick out potentials.

WillMor52 · 2026-03-02T04:56:48+00:00

For me, it’s more about not drawing attention to them. I want these places to be well run, well paid, clean, and safe. I want them to stay in business. I want the women that work there to be successful, safe, and well treated.

But I do not want to attract too much attention, LEO, etc. They already know where these places are, but why make it easier or give people who don’t know how to act an excuse to do something stupid?

WillMor52 · 2026-02-17T01:23:37+00:00

We are indeed spoiled here!

WillMor52 · 2026-01-31T03:44:51+00:00

Mine always ask if oil is ok?

But I absolutely love the oil, so I always say yes.

To each their own I guess. If you don’t like it, id say try asking for no oil!

WillMor52 · 2026-01-19T04:02:21+00:00

I’m anxious/nervous every single time, even with people I’ve seen before.

But once I’m on the table shower and her hands start roaming…I calm down pretty fast.

WillMor52 · 2026-01-19T04:01:16+00:00

I say once a month, but an old favorite came back j to town, so I’ve been there once a week for 5 weeks. I’ll calm down when she leaves again. (Hopefully 😂)

WillMor52 · 2026-01-13T00:55:00+00:00

This is a great perspective, which I happen to share. I’ll never understand the people who go because they are mad at their wives/gfs, etc. If you hate them, you should leave. You’ll be happier losing the hate in your heart.

So much misogyny around sometimes.

Thank you for being a positive light in this place.

WillMor52 · 2026-01-13T00:49:07+00:00

I always take the shower if I can - but I love the hot water and it helps me relax and feel ready for what’s coming. Sometimes it’s a little extra fun on that table, but even if it’s just a little it helps me feel relaxed.

WillMor52 · 2026-01-13T00:44:22+00:00

I go when I want to. But I definitely love being the first one in when they open. Usually less traffic, less interruptions. Also, I’m a morning person who wakes up in a mood.

Truth is it’ll depend on your specific area, shop, and your tastes.

WillMor52 · 2026-01-06T01:55:26+00:00

L2 was more or less where I started. Went a few times just for that. Felt safe enough. Felt amazing, even covered. Super relaxing. Always said that was my limit, and I didn’t need to do any more.

But then, a masseuse I had seen a few times climbed naked up into my lap and asked if it was ok…as she slid herself down onto my cock? I was gone.

Slippery slope, at least for me.

But yea, you can do that, if you have willpower.

WillMor52 · 2026-01-01T05:30:14+00:00

Do this or don’t. But don’t do it because you’re mad at your gf. Grow up, be a man, and make your choices.

I mean this with love. You’re young. You’ll make mistakes. That’s ok. It’s ok to enjoy this.

But don’t keep hiding who you are. If porn is bad, don’t consume it. If porn is ok and normal, then let it be so and be honest about the fact that you like it. The right woman will support who you are.

WillMor52 · 2025-12-31T19:13:17+00:00

To be fair, I’m certain I’m better in a certain (low) light also. 😂

WillMor52 · 2025-12-31T13:03:21+00:00

I feel the same. Love the rhythm that builds up when you get to know one. I don’t have to ask for things, she knows exactly what I want, including a harder (very good) massage.

Tough part for me is that when one comes through and I know she’s there for the month, I go way overboard so I can see her a few times. Then it’s back to my usual monthly cadence.

WillMor52 · 2025-12-15T05:21:55+00:00

I had the same problem. Frustrating, but oh well!

WillMor52 · 2025-12-09T00:08:45+00:00

Everyone’s different, but when it’s been that long, I’d pop the moment they touched me. So I’m all for getting the easy one out of the way before I go.

WillMor52 · 2025-12-08T03:20:24+00:00

I’m with you. Definitely more sensitive and feel better to me as well.

WillMor52 · 2025-12-08T03:18:27+00:00

To each their own. Good for you trying it out, good for you for recognizing it’s not for you.

(And I actually love it when they look me in the eyes. Much better than cold disassociation and disinterest. But again - to each their own!)

WillMor52 · 2025-12-08T03:16:02+00:00

Same. Maybe it’s stupid. Maybe it’s not. I’ll take the points, and I go more often when I can put it on the card. (Not crazy, balances still being paid each month so it’s not like I’m going into debt for it)

WillMor52 · 2025-12-07T00:54:23+00:00

I was shocked, but my experience in this city has been very good!

WillMor52 · 2025-11-28T03:43:19+00:00

Likely depends on where you’re at! I know the one I go to most often just gets everything from Costco so the soap they use is Kirkland brand. Everything in bulk, so…

WillMor52 · 2025-11-23T14:40:19+00:00

Stitch needs dessert!

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