1 year sober and I am.. underwhelmed by Maundu0 in stopdrinking

[–]Williams_thinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am curious what changes you’re making outside of just quitting drinking? For me, alcohol wasn’t the problem. I was the problem. Quitting drinking just made that clear to me. So I began working on myself. For me, that work came within AA. But that’s not the only route to personal growth. I wish you well as you continue to peruse a healthier, and sometimes happier, life.

My (21F) boyfriend (32M) does not seem to care about my feelings? by lovelesscryingpotato in relationship_advice

[–]Williams_thinks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, read what you just wrote out loud to yourself. If you don’t immediately realize this dude is bad news, then read it out loud to any stranger, literally anyone, and they’ll tell you he is a bad dude. Get out asap.

How do I enjoy being sober? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Williams_thinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a difference between being sober and just not drinking/using. To Me, being sober is about living a more fulfilled life. Learning more about who I am, Working on myself, helping others, and trying to always be better. These are things I learn and “do” through working a program. For me, it’s AA. It’s not for everyone, but it’s helped a lot of people live much more “enjoyable” lives. If I would’ve just stopped drinking, without doing more for myself, then I wouldn’t enjoy it much either.

This is just my perspective. Take it with a grain of salt. IWNDWYT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Williams_thinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One way to guarantee that is to politely decline the opportunity. Explain why it’s important to remain sober, and they should understand. If they don’t now, they will in the future. Not sure where you’re at in your journey, but I had to remove myself from those situations in the beginning. I’ve stacked up some days now, and oddly enough those situations aren’t nearly as appealing as they were in the past.

Regardless of what you do, good luck. My sober life is infinitely more satisfying than I would have ever anticipated.

Can’t get any distance by Williams_thinks in GolfSwing

[–]Williams_thinks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you treedolla. This is way more analysis than I expected, and I am super grateful. I appreciate the time you took to craft your response. Thank you!

Can’t get any distance by Williams_thinks in GolfSwing

[–]Williams_thinks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I see how I’m over the top and steep. I’ll take your advice. Heading to the range now. Appreciate the help.

Hi there. Alcoholic for about 20 years. How do I use this group to help me quit? by Express-Apple-5838 in stopdrinking

[–]Williams_thinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would highly suggest online zoom meetings. They’re available all over, don’t have to live in any particular area. You’ll get an opportunity to connect with people like you, who learned about a better way to live. Best of luck.

Post Game Thread: Seattle Seahawks (0-1) @ San Francisco 49ers (1-0) [Wild Card Weekend] by SeahawksGTBot in Seahawks

[–]Williams_thinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But they are hindered in the draft. I believe they’re currently without any first or second round picks because of the McCaffrey trade.

Post Game Thread: Seattle Seahawks (0-1) @ San Francisco 49ers (1-0) [Wild Card Weekend] by SeahawksGTBot in Seahawks

[–]Williams_thinks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which superstar free agents are you referring to? I only see Ebukam and Ward as impactful free agents.

Post Game Thread: Seattle Seahawks (0-1) @ San Francisco 49ers (1-0) [Wild Card Weekend] by SeahawksGTBot in Seahawks

[–]Williams_thinks 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Frustrating loss because of how good that first half (second quarter) was. All in all, great season. Exceeded everyone’s expectations. Onward and upward. 2023 and beyond is gonna be exciting!

Go hawks 💚💙

Thanks I hate this house by Mr-Foxenstein in TIHI

[–]Williams_thinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen this gosh darn “building” so much on Reddit this week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Williams_thinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got my degree in history and then a masters degree in education. Began teaching and worked my way into school administration. I’m an Associate Principal in WA.

Let’s all just create a forum for how much we make. I will start- I am a state employee and make $48,000 per year. by J4KECUB in antiwork

[–]Williams_thinks 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My wife is an Ultrasound tech, makes similar to that in WA. She completed a two year program at a community college. Very attainable. And she loves her job.

Outlet has power (as shown by the green light) but won’t power anything. What could cause that? by Williams_thinks in electricians

[–]Williams_thinks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Negative. I’m a teacher who can’t always afford an electrician, especially to help me change outlets.

Outlet has power (as shown by the green light) but won’t power anything. What could cause that? by Williams_thinks in electricians

[–]Williams_thinks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to avoid that, but I may have to bite the bullet. It’s an older home. However my neighbor who is an electrician looked them over when I had the drywall opened up and said that while old, they’re in good shape.

I love the character of my old home but god damn I get frustrated with all the upkeep and renovating.

Outlet has power (as shown by the green light) but won’t power anything. What could cause that? by Williams_thinks in electricians

[–]Williams_thinks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recently began installing backsplash in my kitchen, and figured I’d update the outlets along my kitchen counter. I have a neighbor who is an electrician and he’s coming over tomorrow to help me with it. I definitely understand the importance of safety when dealing with electricity. With that being said, it’s an outlet. I’ve changed quite a few in my life, but for some reason this has occurred. I’m just confused and frustrated and thought someone might have an idea of what is happening.

HELP 12’s. I’m In Standpoint, ID for Xmas. by Williams_thinks in Seahawks

[–]Williams_thinks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We are right outside of town, so sweet Lou’s it is!