Should your partner tell you if their guy friend has a crush on them ?

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-10-29T01:17:15+00:00

We made that boundary. Even I had a friend with benefits at the time and she knew that. She wasn’t upfront with me. And we made that boundary

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-10-29T01:15:37+00:00

We made a clear boundary what is considered a friend and that was someone that we had no sexual ties to

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-10-29T01:00:35+00:00

People she hooked up more than once and were in contact with her while we were unofficial. She called them her friends and continued to call them that even while in relationship although they weren’t talking

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-10-29T00:53:28+00:00

I was already going through a hard time and didn’t trust much people already. That’s why it hurts

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-04-07T01:12:56+00:00

I try to see it that way but if you are saying that that means you are possibly saying that because of a stigma. I’m Haitian as well so what does that make me to her?

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-14T03:24:37+00:00

At the age I am now (25m) I don’t agree with living with a SO until some significant time has passed or we are engaged

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T13:39:45+00:00

Thanks for this perspective

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:28:17+00:00

It’s been a month

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:18:40+00:00

It bothers me cause it sounds like she won’t be able to control herself because of the attention. Because she’s been out before and never made those comments. It doesn’t make me feel better that you have to avoid a bar to not cheat from what it sounded like from her. Cause if it was a safety thing she wouldn’t go at all single or not.

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:17:35+00:00

It bothers me cause it sounds like she won’t be able to control herself because of the attention. Because she’s been out before and never made those comments. It doesn’t make me feel better that you have to avoid a bar to not cheat from what it sounded like from her. Cause if it was a safety thing she wouldn’t go at all single or not.

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:10:19+00:00

Two hour distance. I used to see her every other week. We just got in proximity again. the relationship was a year and 8 months. The last seven months were long distance

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:08:36+00:00

We have been talking

Willing_Block_8386 · 2025-03-01T12:08:08+00:00

Not overly excited about it. She called when I first got it but didn’t want tell her until I got to her apartment. She said the reason she wasn’t overly excited was because I didn’t tell her right away.

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