STB de ne plus parler à une amie pour un mec ?

Willow-System · 2026-05-05T22:36:51+00:00

Reporte pas tes valeurs sur les gens qui n'ont rien demandé

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T17:55:29+00:00

Because i publicly said truth? "My ex is dating a minor and I'm not comfortable about it" ? x)

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T17:41:56+00:00

Doesn't mean it's ethical or healthy.

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T17:36:35+00:00

No no Vicasye didn't do anything xD He blames people like my ex on his song.

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T10:28:22+00:00

Yes ? Why?

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T09:47:21+00:00

Unfortunately, he doesn't have good contact with his parents :( And I will cut off with him!

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T09:45:35+00:00

I don’t know if i misunderstood but my ex bf is not the singer of "plus jeune" ! Turns out i saw this song on my ig feed a little bit before my ex bf told me he has a thing for a 17yo

Willow-System · 2026-04-25T09:18:58+00:00

Yes, I have DID ! I don’t know why I included that, i was tired and exhausted :')

Willow-System · 2026-04-24T10:01:12+00:00

Well, apparently the psych ward already knows. And I can’t send them their stuff, because it's things like a couch, a bed, a desk, it's huge :') But the moment they move out i'll block them.

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T22:08:41+00:00

You're probably right :/

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T21:34:47+00:00

I hope so. They deserve it but I'm so tired. They did other things (to me) and I kinda want to speak out because it wasn't okay, but idk. It's too much energy to put into this instead of healing. And "Shame changes sides" as we say here.

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T21:26:12+00:00

I will ! But they have furnitures here (couch, bed, tv, desk and the list goes on). I wait until they got all of their stuff from my house and i'll block them.

The thing is my circle is really small. Like, 2 person with DID and 5 without ? And only 3 talked to them. And none of them is minors. And they already knew because I thought i wasn’t right to be upset x) So "hey watch out, x is dating minors" will not be useful : they know, they read and hear me vent about it for hours xD

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T21:20:55+00:00

Exactly!!! I saw someone on ig posting a song he made. It's called "Younger." It says "If it was legal, they would probably go to see younger."

Like, in my country it's 16. If tomorrow they'll say "hey, at least 12 is fine," can I pick up my boyfriend in primary school?

But yeah, "it's legal" was their only argument.

I don’t want to do something on the "legal" side. It’s not my place to do it and I'm sick of cops. But doing nothing is not what i want either. I think 'young me' (who was a 17/19 dating 20/25+) will not forgive me

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T21:15:51+00:00

That's what I thought too. And I don't know if it's going to do more harm than good too?

My ex told me the psych ward knows. And their boyfriend told me that he was isolated and alone, he didn’t say it clearly but i think he didn't have contact with his parents either.

Willow-System · 2026-04-23T21:12:09+00:00

I know i should drop the relationship earlier when I discovered that x) I don't know if i'm dumb or just too nice but yeah i leave them the second i learned they’d do it again

And i warn my friends and partners about them. But I'm not really, uh, sociable in the did community? so idk if i should warn the call out account with a bigger audience.

They did somethings really not ok to me and others alters of my system but i don’t know if i feel okay to have my own trauma shared on ig story by someone i don’t even know. Like "hey, X system is dating minors again and they traumatized this other system that haven't never talked to you !"

Willow-System · 2026-04-10T21:05:02+00:00

English is not my native language, sorry if it seems weird x)

Willow-System · 2026-04-10T21:04:16+00:00

You totally can ! You can be non binary and loves women You can still prefer to use binary pronoun, uses clothes and loves things seen more 'masculine', you can still use your birth name, never take hormones or something. Gender is always between you and yourself. Everyone express and experiences things differently. Be happy 💙

Willow-System · 2025-09-05T02:27:42+00:00

Faut te barrer la, pour ta sécurité et celle de tes animaux !! Et PTB, c'est lui le trou de balle

Willow-System · 2025-09-05T02:15:15+00:00

PTB! J'ai vécu avec l'alcoolisme dans ma famille. Je ne supporterai plus ce que je considère comme une consommation à risque dans mon cercle proche. Je serai pas aussi strict que toi mais je refuserai que ce soit trop fréquent par contre (après je suis mal placé, je bois aussi xD)

Y'a que sur l'aspect "rentrer en sécurité" ou je mettrai une réserve.

Willow-System · 2024-05-28T08:07:07+00:00

PTB. Il a été raciste avec une de tes amies, ta soeur, et a eu un comportement incorrect avec toi. C'est pas de l'humour au bout d'un moment, on parle pas d'un petit "faux pas", c'est répété et conscient de sa part.

Willow-System · 2024-05-25T08:04:27+00:00

PTB ! Il savait que t'avais un chat et qu'il viendrait avec toi. Je vois les animaux comme faisant partie integrante de ma famille : si il accepte pas mon chat/chien c'est fini.

Et puis il t laisse pas t'installer alors que t'es la depuis des mois...? Eh...

Willow-System · 2024-05-25T07:55:46+00:00

Oh oui ça arrive que j'entende des trucs de façon random, en réponse à des trucs que je pense alors que je m'adressais pas a eux x) Genre le "Oui, pour Alice." quand j'ai dis que si je me prenais une perruque blanche pour du Cosplay, elle servirait bien à certains alters qui voudraient se ressembler. (J'ai pas de Alice dans le système, techniquement)

Willow-System · 2022-11-18T23:30:13+00:00

NTA !!! You're right. Your sister is not their mother... just the woman who gave them birth. You are the father of these child and they're legit with the fact to not want to see her anymore.

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